Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So you want to mooch the comunal free food, but don't want to be noticed as the 1 lone free loader?
Are you always such a sponge?
That’s not fair to OP. They weren’t wanting to go without contributing, they were wanting to avoid it altogether. Because she is being pressured to attend, she is looking for a contribution that she can make to the dinner she has no interest in.
I did not read the Op's post like that at all
It is literally what she said in her follow up.
Op - are you looking for easy? Or just trying to figure out what you bring for 12 people? If lunch, appetizer food always went over big at ours. Vegetables and dip, chips and salsa, deviled eggs. Hummus tray. And there is nothing wrong about asking if they need paper products.