Anonymous wrote:My loved one said giving up smoking is like having a best friend die and you miss them every day. Put into perspective for me how strong the nicotine pull is.
I smoked from age 18 to 30 and I totally agree. I would describe it like heartbreak. When you are newly single, everywhere you look you see happy couples laughing and holding hands. When you quit smoking, you suddenly see beautiful and cool people smoking everywhere you go.
10+ years after quitting, it’s like thinking fondly of an old boyfriend. I don’t want to see or talk to him now just like I don’t want to ever smoke again - but sometimes I’ll feel wistful? Sentimental? Like “we had some good times and that feels like a lifetime ago”.