Anonymous wrote:my 16 year old son is getting a bike because his was stolen (he left it unlocked on our porch). Usually i would not replace something he was careless about but i'm going for it because i'm grateful to have something to buy. he wants nothing else.
unfortunately i set the precedent in our house (years ago) that stocking gifts are a big deal. not big as in "expensive" but big as in "thoughtful and interesting". I have two teen girls and stocking stuffers are super easy for them. Now my son? It's almost impossible to find 5-8 small and thoughtful things for him.
Stockings for my teen son are so difficult as well. My daughter I could fill five stockings, my son, unless I wanted to spend a thousand dollars on gift cards, I have a difficult time filling one. I end up buying a lot of crap just to fill it.