Anonymous wrote:Goodness, have you guys not seen the research on this? This is a thing. Some people don’t have an inner voice. That’s what OP is describing.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I had no internal words when I was a kid -- I thought in thoughts, not words. Then as a teen I started translating my thoughts into words. I prefer thinking in thoughts. : (
If you didn’t have words then what were your thoughts comprised of? Were they not in a language? Do you mean feelings? Feelings do not require words although we try and use words to articulate them so that we may communicate our feelings via language.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It's 100% spontaneous.
This is sort of freaking me out as a concerto, op. Are you ever surprised by what you do or say? Are you married? If so, how did you decide to do that? What kind of work do you do?
Anonymous wrote:I have an inner voice that tells me not to post on DCUM.
Anonymous wrote:It's 100% spontaneous.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand either. Do you have thoughts? When you go about making a decision do you mull it over in your head? I don’t get it. Please explain.
The best way I can try to explain it is like I don't need to translate my thoughts into English words. I understand my thoughts without words and skip a step - I skip elucidating (?) the thoughts to myself. Probably similar to how athletes play sports. I imagine they often don't talk through in their heads in words how to, for example, kick the ball in soccer, they just know to do it and kick it.
But if I need to mull over something, I sometimes talk it over out loud. Really, I talk to myself a lot. I might be cooking and speaking out loud like:
"Okay, I need that spice. . . Ok got it. Where's the knife, oh there it is. This isn't sharp enough, I will get another. . ."
If your thoughts are not comprised of words then what are they comprised of? Are you talking about your subconscious?
90% of human behavior day to day is subconscious. This is when a conscious behavior becomes a habit and we no longer need to be effortful in the task. We complete without conscious effort or thought. Conscious effort, such as a new recipe or new task, requires thought. But it too with enough practice can become a subconscious behavior. Is this what you mean?
Anonymous wrote:LOL, everyone, think of your grandma. Now think of the house you grew up in. Now your first kiss.
No one just thought in words, OP. No one.