Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s her child, not yours. When she takes a break to interact then make yourself busy doing something else until she’s done.

Yup this.

My schedule is different day to day and it is around lunchtime when colleagues eat or are out that I have some free time in my schedule so that’s when I go hang out with kiddo. Just deal with it I don’t get what the issue is.

You just heard what the issue is. Your kid is flexible, but op's charge is not, mom riles the kid up, interrupts lunch, then locks herself in her office and nanny gets to deal with dysregulated kid.

Anonymous wrote:If you know when mom is taking breaks, the you need to do the work to shift the child's schedule by 15 minutes here or there to accommodate those breaks.

Since I just know nanny is going to come on here to talk about how child's schedule is set according to child's biological schedule and she can't change it, that is utter and complete bullshit. I know this because my kids were in daycare and their schedules were shifted to whatever daycare wanted it to be and all 8 kids in the room were on the same schedule at any given time AND my kids' weekend schedules were totally different from daycare schedules and we all managed just fine.

If you know when mom is taking breaks, the you need to do the work to shift the child's schedule by 15 minutes here or there to accommodate those breaks.