Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kids wear cheap items from Gap; however, I purchased a 20K acoustic guitar for my 12 years old son and 120K violin for my 14 years old daughter.
Well that was dumb
How so?
Anonymous wrote:I think you can “justify” the golden goose sneakers. She’ll wear them everyday and assuming she’s not growing at 14, can wear them for multiple years. The love shack fancy I’m assuming she wants for special occasions- kids aren’t really wearing that to school— so buying one skirt every once in awhile I could do. The aviator nation, I would do a hoodie and then the rest of her clothes are from hm and Zara. It doesn’t have to be all or nothing.
And for the poster talking about old money, (1) there is no actual old money in DC and (2) it is a myth that super rich old money people are walking around in trash bags and driving 15 year old Toyota Corollas.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kids wear cheap items from Gap; however, I purchased a 20K acoustic guitar for my 12 years old son and 120K violin for my 14 years old daughter.
Well that was dumb
Anonymous wrote:I've not realized till now how lucky I am that my kid is into vintage and thrift store clothing.
Anonymous wrote:My kids wear cheap items from Gap; however, I purchased a 20K acoustic guitar for my 12 years old son and 120K violin for my 14 years old daughter.
Anonymous wrote:We go to a public middle school- screws lower income. The most expensive trends I see are maybe Nike Air Force one shoes and perhaps a Patagonia fleece. Even those are minimal and don’t seem to be coveted. Otherwise, anything goes. There are no expensive trends and I see lots of diverse looks at pick up. My 7th grade daughter has not requested anything I consider expensive. We have a high HHI and I buy high quality items for myself and sometimes the kids, depending what it is. But I absolutely would not buy my teen a $200 Aviator Nation sweatshirt or $500 Golden Goose sneakers. That teaches terrible values and sets an unattainable standard for them at young financial independent adults