Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It's not a neighborhood school, it's a lottery.
It's stricter, has a dress code and has homework.
Classes are bigger.
It's generally used by people trying to escape neighborhood schools that have a lot of poverty.
I only know a few people who have kids there, and they have said that it's hard to schedule playdates and get to know families since they oftentimes don't speak English as their first language.
ATS family here. I do not agree with the "it's hard to schedule playdates and get to know families since they often times don't speak English as their first language". The school is diverse in many ways since it's lottery, however, it isn't hard to meet families or set up outside school activates if that is something you are interested in doing.
Another ATS family - easy to schedule playdates with classmates from ATS. Neighborhood kids? Good luck. Every new family we meet in our neighborhood groans when we say we go to ATS. If they just moved to Arlington (all those new people!) and we say ATS, they have no idea, but the next time we see them you see the jealousy.
This sounds like it has to do with how you're talking about ATS vs. the fact that your kids go there.
To you and the other poster, it just comes up: "Oh, where do your children go?" when they learn its not the local school. When we say ATS, I get some hard eye rolls from those who didn't get the lottery. FWIW, we live in south Arlington, in a planning unit with lots of people who do option schools, mostly immersion. Those families don't care, but the ones who attend our zoned school will straight up roll their eyes at us and the nice ones will at least tell us they wish we were at the same school because they could use more kids whose families would be involved in school. I don't think that is narcissistic to notice when people roll their eyes at you for answering what school your kids go to.
Are you sure you aren't giving off some kind of "I would never send my kid to THAT school" vibe?
Anonymous wrote:I love how parents INSIST that the ATS system is better for their kid - and usually their other kids - when the kids have never been in formal school and they have no idea what education their kid(s) will respond to.
If it is going to be a program that is different than any other school, or provide (some, maybe) value, kids should be evaluated by a the school’s administration for admission.
Parents generally send their kids there because they think it’s elite, not because it is better for the kid.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It's not a neighborhood school, it's a lottery.
It's stricter, has a dress code and has homework.
Classes are bigger.
It's generally used by people trying to escape neighborhood schools that have a lot of poverty.
I only know a few people who have kids there, and they have said that it's hard to schedule playdates and get to know families since they oftentimes don't speak English as their first language.
ATS family here. I do not agree with the "it's hard to schedule playdates and get to know families since they often times don't speak English as their first language". The school is diverse in many ways since it's lottery, however, it isn't hard to meet families or set up outside school activates if that is something you are interested in doing.
Another ATS family - easy to schedule playdates with classmates from ATS. Neighborhood kids? Good luck. Every new family we meet in our neighborhood groans when we say we go to ATS. If they just moved to Arlington (all those new people!) and we say ATS, they have no idea, but the next time we see them you see the jealousy.
This sounds like it has to do with how you're talking about ATS vs. the fact that your kids go there.
To you and the other poster, it just comes up: "Oh, where do your children go?" when they learn its not the local school. When we say ATS, I get some hard eye rolls from those who didn't get the lottery. FWIW, we live in south Arlington, in a planning unit with lots of people who do option schools, mostly immersion. Those families don't care, but the ones who attend our zoned school will straight up roll their eyes at us and the nice ones will at least tell us they wish we were at the same school because they could use more kids whose families would be involved in school. I don't think that is narcissistic to notice when people roll their eyes at you for answering what school your kids go to.
Anonymous wrote:https://www.arlingtonmagazine.com/old-school/
Eventually, it won't matter where your kid went to ES, but if you think ATS would make your kid (not you) happier for the duration of ES, enter the lottery.
We knew families from preschool who sent their kids to ATS and still get together with their ATS acquaintances. They are fervid in their support of ATS. They are very much into rule-following: those tucked-in shirts, mandatory instrument, homework every day, must read by K, standardized test scores? They dig that stuff.
My kids do better with more autonomy, even if there were times their choices made me nuts. But are they now independent, functioning adults (or clearly on their way) because we let them make their own decisions, or was that going to happen anyway? And on the flip side, are their ATS friends still getting a lot of parental shepherding because they've always needed it (so ATS was a good fit), or did the rigidity of ATS keep them from developing self-reliance?
And yeah, the weirdness of COVID probably didn't help older teenagers/early 20somethings get launched, either.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It's not a neighborhood school, it's a lottery.
It's stricter, has a dress code and has homework.
Classes are bigger.
It's generally used by people trying to escape neighborhood schools that have a lot of poverty.
I only know a few people who have kids there, and they have said that it's hard to schedule playdates and get to know families since they oftentimes don't speak English as their first language.
ATS family here. I do not agree with the "it's hard to schedule playdates and get to know families since they often times don't speak English as their first language". The school is diverse in many ways since it's lottery, however, it isn't hard to meet families or set up outside school activates if that is something you are interested in doing.
Another ATS family - easy to schedule playdates with classmates from ATS. Neighborhood kids? Good luck. Every new family we meet in our neighborhood groans when we say we go to ATS. If they just moved to Arlington (all those new people!) and we say ATS, they have no idea, but the next time we see them you see the jealousy.
This sounds like it has to do with how you're talking about ATS vs. the fact that your kids go there.
To you and the other poster, it just comes up: "Oh, where do your children go?" when they learn its not the local school. When we say ATS, I get some hard eye rolls from those who didn't get the lottery. FWIW, we live in south Arlington, in a planning unit with lots of people who do option schools, mostly immersion. Those families don't care, but the ones who attend our zoned school will straight up roll their eyes at us and the nice ones will at least tell us they wish we were at the same school because they could use more kids whose families would be involved in school. I don't think that is narcissistic to notice when people roll their eyes at you for answering what school your kids go to.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It's not a neighborhood school, it's a lottery.
It's stricter, has a dress code and has homework.
Classes are bigger.
It's generally used by people trying to escape neighborhood schools that have a lot of poverty.
I only know a few people who have kids there, and they have said that it's hard to schedule playdates and get to know families since they oftentimes don't speak English as their first language.
ATS family here. I do not agree with the "it's hard to schedule playdates and get to know families since they often times don't speak English as their first language". The school is diverse in many ways since it's lottery, however, it isn't hard to meet families or set up outside school activates if that is something you are interested in doing.
Another ATS family - easy to schedule playdates with classmates from ATS. Neighborhood kids? Good luck. Every new family we meet in our neighborhood groans when we say we go to ATS. If they just moved to Arlington (all those new people!) and we say ATS, they have no idea, but the next time we see them you see the jealousy.
This sounds like it has to do with how you're talking about ATS vs. the fact that your kids go there.
To you and the other poster, it just comes up: "Oh, where do your children go?" when they learn its not the local school. When we say ATS, I get some hard eye rolls from those who didn't get the lottery. FWIW, we live in south Arlington, in a planning unit with lots of people who do option schools, mostly immersion. Those families don't care, but the ones who attend our zoned school will straight up roll their eyes at us and the nice ones will at least tell us they wish we were at the same school because they could use more kids whose families would be involved in school. I don't think that is narcissistic to notice when people roll their eyes at you for answering what school your kids go to.
Anonymous wrote:We’re new to Arlington and don’t know much about ATS. Our local is Jamestown (which we understand to be non-diverse — which is too bad, but we are POC and understood what we were getting into), which I thought would be good academically. Should we explore ATS too?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It's not a neighborhood school, it's a lottery.
It's stricter, has a dress code and has homework.
Classes are bigger.
It's generally used by people trying to escape neighborhood schools that have a lot of poverty.
I only know a few people who have kids there, and they have said that it's hard to schedule playdates and get to know families since they oftentimes don't speak English as their first language.
ATS family here. I do not agree with the "it's hard to schedule playdates and get to know families since they often times don't speak English as their first language". The school is diverse in many ways since it's lottery, however, it isn't hard to meet families or set up outside school activates if that is something you are interested in doing.
Another ATS family - easy to schedule playdates with classmates from ATS. Neighborhood kids? Good luck. Every new family we meet in our neighborhood groans when we say we go to ATS. If they just moved to Arlington (all those new people!) and we say ATS, they have no idea, but the next time we see them you see the jealousy.
This sounds like it has to do with how you're talking about ATS vs. the fact that your kids go there.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It's not a neighborhood school, it's a lottery.
It's stricter, has a dress code and has homework.
Classes are bigger.
It's generally used by people trying to escape neighborhood schools that have a lot of poverty.
I only know a few people who have kids there, and they have said that it's hard to schedule playdates and get to know families since they oftentimes don't speak English as their first language.
ATS family here. I do not agree with the "it's hard to schedule playdates and get to know families since they often times don't speak English as their first language". The school is diverse in many ways since it's lottery, however, it isn't hard to meet families or set up outside school activates if that is something you are interested in doing.
Another ATS family - easy to schedule playdates with classmates from ATS. Neighborhood kids? Good luck. Every new family we meet in our neighborhood groans when we say we go to ATS. If they just moved to Arlington (all those new people!) and we say ATS, they have no idea, but the next time we see them you see the jealousy.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It's not a neighborhood school, it's a lottery.
It's stricter, has a dress code and has homework.
Classes are bigger.
It's generally used by people trying to escape neighborhood schools that have a lot of poverty.
I only know a few people who have kids there, and they have said that it's hard to schedule playdates and get to know families since they oftentimes don't speak English as their first language.
ATS family here. I do not agree with the "it's hard to schedule playdates and get to know families since they often times don't speak English as their first language". The school is diverse in many ways since it's lottery, however, it isn't hard to meet families or set up outside school activates if that is something you are interested in doing.
Another ATS family - easy to schedule playdates with classmates from ATS. Neighborhood kids? Good luck. Every new family we meet in our neighborhood groans when we say we go to ATS. If they just moved to Arlington (all those new people!) and we say ATS, they have no idea, but the next time we see them you see the jealousy.
Anonymous wrote:It is an option school that has higher average scores because by definition it only pulls in students whose parents are highly engaged with academic achievement.
As for how it compares otherwise with your neighborhood school, we have no clue what your neighborhood school is.