Anonymous
Post 08/30/2022 13:15     Subject: Do they hate me?
Yes, they hate you. Why? Because you are a nasty person as you reveled in you insane post.
They ask a kid about his mother as a dig at you. No other explanation in your own evil mind.
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2022 07:50     Subject: Do they hate me?


My, you're dramatic, OP.

Did you really just ask us if the relative "HATES" you, simply because they asked your step child how their mother is doing?

Why would you make that about you??

You're so dramatic & exhausting.
Anonymous
Post 08/29/2022 23:12     Subject: Do they hate me?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have been with my partner for 12 years and we have a child together. He also has dc's with his ew wife. When we attend functions with his extended family, I often overhear his cousins asking the dc's about their mother. They also tell the dc's to let their mother know they asked about her. Am I being overly sensitive in thinking this is a dig at me?


Never get involved with a divorced person if they have children.


+10000


Sock pupetting is pathetic.
Anonymous
Post 08/29/2022 23:11     Subject: Do they hate me?
Anonymous wrote:Not a dig at you. Just not tactful.


How is it not tactful??
The cousin didn't say it in front of OP, she OVERHEARD them talking.

You and OP sure have a weird & skewed way of looking at positive intrafamilial relationships. 🙄
Anonymous
Post 08/29/2022 23:06     Subject: Do they hate me?
Anonymous wrote:I have been with my partner for 12 years and we have a child together. He also has dc's with his ew wife. When we attend functions with his extended family, I often overhear his cousins asking the dc's about their mother. They also tell the dc's to let their mother know they asked about her. Am I being overly sensitive in thinking this is a dig at me?


With his "ew" wife. 🤣
Anonymous
Post 08/29/2022 20:40     Subject: Do they hate me?
WTF OP. You are being petty and immature.
Anonymous
Post 08/29/2022 20:37     Subject: Do they hate me?
It's not all about you, OP. It's not about you at all. And when he divorces you and has kids with the next wife, and family asks your kids how you are when they see them at events, it won't be about that wife either. It's always going to be about the kids.
Anonymous
Post 08/29/2022 20:28     Subject: Re:Do they hate me?
How can you be upset that they are asking kids about their mother? A divorce does not negate the mother-child relationship. She will always be a part of the family because of that connection.
Anonymous
Post 08/29/2022 13:35     Subject: Do they hate me?
Are you upset that they’re acknowledging the other children or that they’re asking about their mom? I’m not sure if you’re okay with the children’s presence either. They must be a painful reminder that your DH has a past.
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2022 19:26     Subject: Do they hate me?
Definitely think you are over sensitive. My brother is remarried; I still ask his kids from his first marriage about their mom… she was my SIL for many years. I ADORE his new wife too!
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2022 19:07     Subject: Do they hate me?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have been with my partner for 12 years and we have a child together. He also has dc's with his ew wife. When we attend functions with his extended family, I often overhear his cousins asking the dc's about their mother. They also tell the dc's to let their mother know they asked about her. Am I being overly sensitive in thinking this is a dig at me?


Never get involved with a divorced person if they have children.


Well, that advice comes a little late for OP to use it. Got anything constructive and useful to say, PP?
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2022 18:36     Subject: Do they hate me?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have been with my partner for 12 years and we have a child together. He also has dc's with his ew wife. When we attend functions with his extended family, I often overhear his cousins asking the dc's about their mother. They also tell the dc's to let their mother know they asked about her. Am I being overly sensitive in thinking this is a dig at me?


Never get involved with a divorced person if they have children.


+10000
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2022 14:58     Subject: Do they hate me?
OP get over yourself. I’m mid 30s, my parents have been divorced for 15 years, and both sides always politely ask about the ex. I think less of family that doesn’t say, “oh how’s your mom? Tell her hi!”
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2022 11:39     Subject: Do they hate me?
Anonymous wrote:I have been with my partner for 12 years and we have a child together. He also has dc's with his ew wife. When we attend functions with his extended family, I often overhear his cousins asking the dc's about their mother. They also tell the dc's to let their mother know they asked about her. Am I being overly sensitive in thinking this is a dig at me?


The fact you call her "his ew wife" is very telling, spelling error or not.

Please get over yourself, OP. Everything is not about you 24/7.
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2022 11:30     Subject: Do they hate me?
Anonymous wrote:Not a dig at you. Just not tactful.


They’re not asking in front of OP. They are asking the children away from OP, and she’s eavesdropping and freaking out. It’s actually polite to ask after a child’s parent if you know them.