Anonymous wrote:did u know about the dog fight me? Did u report it?Anonymous wrote:Next door ghetto family constantly screaming - could hear it through the walls. At one point they hosted dog fights in their basement. When the dogs couldn't be separated they turned a hose on them (causing water damage) and then had to stab one of the dogs. The police came and said it was horrendous.
Anonymous wrote:Wow. The pps have some awful situations.
To me, elements of a bad neighborhood include:
- bad schools (low test scores, many not going on to 4-year colleges)
-neighbors that don't take care of their homes (peeling paint, overgrown lawns, junk in the yards)
-trash in the streets
-broken street lights
I am sure there is more, but if I drive through a neighborhood, and feel the need to make sure my door is locked because I don't feel safe, that is a bad neighborhood.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Our neighbors weren't yelling or keeping their houses looking trashy, but it was a very cliquey, mean-girls type neighborhood. It was like being back in all the worst parts of high school.
We did move, but it wasn't only for that reason. I had a terrible commute at the time. Moving isn't cheap, but the improvement in quality of life made it worth it.
Same. The gossips can bring everyone down.
Anonymous wrote:Our neighbors weren't yelling or keeping their houses looking trashy, but it was a very cliquey, mean-girls type neighborhood. It was like being back in all the worst parts of high school.
We did move, but it wasn't only for that reason. I had a terrible commute at the time. Moving isn't cheap, but the improvement in quality of life made it worth it.
Anonymous wrote:There are genuinely horrible neighbors who are disruptive or aggressive or disturbing. Thereās little you can do about that except hope that you donāt get unlucky. Once it happens, you have to just see what if anything you can do to keep it manageable or move.
There are also a ton of people who actually have pretty normal neighbors but BELIEVE they have terrible neighbor. These are the folks who tend to fixate on the neighbors tree trimming or lawn or how they store their trash can or whatever. Or theyāre angry about kid noises or parties on Saturday. These people will be happiest in a strict HOA with large lots, which is totally fine! Thatās why they exist.
Anonymous wrote:We lived in a condo below 3 22 year old frat bros in their first place out of college. They seemed drunk most of the time; lots of screaming, yelling, things hitting the floor. When we approached them in a friendly way to ask them to consider making less noise (e.g. removing a subwoofer from the bare wood floor) they told us they thought it was unfair that they should have to change anything to āsuit our lifestyle.ā Inconsiderate people make bad neighbors.
did u know about the dog fight me? Did u report it?Anonymous wrote:Next door ghetto family constantly screaming - could hear it through the walls. At one point they hosted dog fights in their basement. When the dogs couldn't be separated they turned a hose on them (causing water damage) and then had to stab one of the dogs. The police came and said it was horrendous.