Something fishy about this post.
This is talk therapy? Or for a disability identified in a 504 or an IEP? Bc if it's not for those then they don't need to accommodate anything. It's your choice to have her miss school, not an accommodation for an identified disability.
Even if it IS therapy for an identified disability... it still sounds preposterous even if one isn't asking for a video recording. That's actually hilarious.
Which is why I think you've never attended an IEP meeting hahaha. In which case accommodation doesn't mean what you think it means.