Op here. I tested the kids and all negative yet they are miserable with stuffy noses. I will test them again tomorrow but agree they can’t go if they are sick. I will just have to go. Thanks all!

colds don't usually come w/ fevers. I'd treat it as though it's Covid or flu even if you get a negative Covid test. And that means I'd have my kids and husband stay home and I'd only go yourself if you are feeling well and if you wear a mask. The only reason I'd still go myself if I were you is that you just had Covid recently.

Anonymous wrote:With that much sickness around, I would stay home out of respect for my extended family.

This. None of you should go.

Do not bring sick kids.

Have dh stay home with the kids and wear a mask to the funeral. Test before you go.

OP, I would go given your recent Covid. Leave the others at home.

Do not go. It's not worth it to kill someone else for a funeral.

Stay home. My 90 year old FIL caught covid at his wife's funeral.