Anonymous wrote:It's not your responsibility to pay for college, OP. Adults are responsible for themselves. If you are 18, you are an adult. I raised independent adults who pay their own way for everything. If you want to go to college, you'll figure it out. If you do not want to go, you'll also figure that out.
You and I are totally on different wavelengths about parenting.
OP - I'm trying to give my kids a gift of being debt free to start their adult life. That said, I don't plan to fully fund anything. I'll save about 250k, and they will likely go to grad school like my spouse and I did. We both had some scholarships and grad school was fully funded through our grad advisors' projects. We also worked a little for extra money on the side.