Anonymous wrote:Well, I generally come in at least fifteen minutes late, ah, I use the side door - that way the boss can't see me, and, uh, after that I just sorta space out for about an hour. Yeah, I just stare at my desk; but it looks like I'm working. I do that for probably another hour after lunch, too. I'd say in a given week I probably only do about fifteen minutes of real, actual, work.
Anonymous wrote:100% disabled (limited mobility, end-stage lung disease) SAH mother.
I wake up, drink coffee, take my teenager to work if he's scheduled to work, hang out with my fiancé when he is not working, play the piano, work around the house, read, research my subjects of interest (which are many), listen to music. I live a full, happy life.
I worked 100 hrs/wk (mostly in Management) for years before I had to file for disability. My job now is to stay alive, and to try and stay out of a wheelchair and off oxygen as long as possible. My lung disease was caused by untreated asthma during my childhood. My lungs were scarred by the time I was 18. I am 50 now. My limited mobility is caused by a rapidly-progressing genetic condition. You never know what's going to throw a wrench in your plans. Gotta enjoy life however you can, and never take a moment of it for granted.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Non- profit exec wIth two middle schoolers.
Wake at 5 or 6am. Brush teeth and start working on things that require focus (or sometimes exercise)
7:30-8:30 get kids out the door. Get dressed.
8:30 - 10 answer emails, deal with things I didn’t get to the day before
10 - 5pm relentless zoom calls (with a brief break to welcome kids home on good days and occasionally a short walk with the dog or neighbor or phone call to my mom or sister)
5ish - stop working. Shuttle kids to activities. Sometimes exercise while they’re out, sometimes work more.
7-9 family stuff. Make dinner (or DH makes dinner), eat together, maybe watch something together.
9:30 head to bed bed. Read for a bit or veg out on my phone. Asleep by 10:30.
Once or twice a week I go into the office but mostly I WAH.
What are the relentless zoom calls? Who is calling? Are they scheduled or are you putting out fires all day?
NP but similar sounding nonprofit role. Mine are external and internal and mostly pre scheduled. I often work for an hour between 6-7am, end at 5:30, and lately have been working 8:30-10pm as well. It’s rough.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Non- profit exec wIth two middle schoolers.
Wake at 5 or 6am. Brush teeth and start working on things that require focus (or sometimes exercise)
7:30-8:30 get kids out the door. Get dressed.
8:30 - 10 answer emails, deal with things I didn’t get to the day before
10 - 5pm relentless zoom calls (with a brief break to welcome kids home on good days and occasionally a short walk with the dog or neighbor or phone call to my mom or sister)
5ish - stop working. Shuttle kids to activities. Sometimes exercise while they’re out, sometimes work more.
7-9 family stuff. Make dinner (or DH makes dinner), eat together, maybe watch something together.
9:30 head to bed bed. Read for a bit or veg out on my phone. Asleep by 10:30.
Once or twice a week I go into the office but mostly I WAH.
What are the relentless zoom calls? Who is calling? Are they scheduled or are you putting out fires all day?
Anonymous wrote:I am amazed how early you all get up.
Wake up at 8 just in time for first daily meeting at 8:30. (Sometimes it is actually 8:20)
After meeting comes coffee, breakfast, brushing teeth, makeup.
Back to the computer to write some code.
Make lunch and prep/plan dinner.
Walk the dog. (DH walks it in the morning)
Back to the computer and write more code.
School pickup (DH handles morning drop off)
After school activities (soccer, swimming etc, based on the day of the week)
Dinner and family time
Clean up
Netflix/TV/reading
In bed by 12:00
Software Engineer.
PS while writing code I take mini breaks for laundry and other house keeping