Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yeah, OP is willing to spend thousands on a financial advisor but not willing to pay what she owes for her kid's education.
"What you owe" is so completely arbitrary and the process is so opaque that the concept is meaningless. Two people with the same income and assets can end up with wildly different aid offers for reasons that neither party will ever know. If your kid gets a free ride because this year they want female flute players but my kid has to pay full price because they already have enough male Eagle Scouts, does that mean you didn't "pay what you owe" but I did?
You are really stretching it. OP is talking about strategically rearranging or reporting/not reporting her true assets so she can transfer the burden of paying to some other families. It's also know as "gaming" the system. If that doesn't bother you, then you have a deeper issue.
Not PP you replied to, but the point is that you can't really hide your assets.
You can rearrange your assets only on the edges, and it likely won't make much a difference.
I commend OP for confirming this with a financial advisor, because it's better to KNOW, than to read the jealous stupidity and aggression on DCUM. Moreover, OP might indeed fall into the minuscule number of cases where LEGAL re-arrangement might make a difference - and that would be ethically fine. It would be silly not to try. Anyone of you would surely try to minimize college costs if you could legally do so!!!![]()
So stop being so nasty. Good Lord.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yeah, OP is willing to spend thousands on a financial advisor but not willing to pay what she owes for her kid's education.
"What you owe" is so completely arbitrary and the process is so opaque that the concept is meaningless. Two people with the same income and assets can end up with wildly different aid offers for reasons that neither party will ever know. If your kid gets a free ride because this year they want female flute players but my kid has to pay full price because they already have enough male Eagle Scouts, does that mean you didn't "pay what you owe" but I did?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yeah, OP is willing to spend thousands on a financial advisor but not willing to pay what she owes for her kid's education.
"What you owe" is so completely arbitrary and the process is so opaque that the concept is meaningless. Two people with the same income and assets can end up with wildly different aid offers for reasons that neither party will ever know. If your kid gets a free ride because this year they want female flute players but my kid has to pay full price because they already have enough male Eagle Scouts, does that mean you didn't "pay what you owe" but I did?
You are really stretching it. OP is talking about strategically rearranging or reporting/not reporting her true assets so she can transfer the burden of paying to some other families. It's also know as "gaming" the system. If that doesn't bother you, then you have a deeper issue.
Not PP you replied to, but the point is that you can't really hide your assets.
You can rearrange your assets only on the edges, and it likely won't make much a difference.
I commend OP for confirming this with a financial advisor, because it's better to KNOW, than to read the jealous stupidity and aggression on DCUM. Moreover, OP might indeed fall into the minuscule number of cases where LEGAL re-arrangement might make a difference - and that would be ethically fine. It would be silly not to try. Anyone of you would surely try to minimize college costs if you could legally do so!!!![]()
So stop being so nasty. Good Lord.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yeah, OP is willing to spend thousands on a financial advisor but not willing to pay what she owes for her kid's education.
"What you owe" is so completely arbitrary and the process is so opaque that the concept is meaningless. Two people with the same income and assets can end up with wildly different aid offers for reasons that neither party will ever know. If your kid gets a free ride because this year they want female flute players but my kid has to pay full price because they already have enough male Eagle Scouts, does that mean you didn't "pay what you owe" but I did?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yeah, OP is willing to spend thousands on a financial advisor but not willing to pay what she owes for her kid's education.
"What you owe" is so completely arbitrary and the process is so opaque that the concept is meaningless. Two people with the same income and assets can end up with wildly different aid offers for reasons that neither party will ever know. If your kid gets a free ride because this year they want female flute players but my kid has to pay full price because they already have enough male Eagle Scouts, does that mean you didn't "pay what you owe" but I did?
You are really stretching it. OP is talking about strategically rearranging or reporting/not reporting her true assets so she can transfer the burden of paying to some other families. It's also know as "gaming" the system. If that doesn't bother you, then you have a deeper issue.
Anonymous wrote:Question for anyone who knows:
If a family of 4 currently has a low income but a large stock portfolio abroad (a family brokerage account, not retirement account, in a parent's name and has been reported to the IRS for years), they're not eligible for aid, right?
This is our situation.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yeah, OP is willing to spend thousands on a financial advisor but not willing to pay what she owes for her kid's education.
"What you owe" is so completely arbitrary and the process is so opaque that the concept is meaningless. Two people with the same income and assets can end up with wildly different aid offers for reasons that neither party will ever know. If your kid gets a free ride because this year they want female flute players but my kid has to pay full price because they already have enough male Eagle Scouts, does that mean you didn't "pay what you owe" but I did?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I didn't ask "can it be done", I asked for names of people who can advise me what to do. Thanks for answering the question I didn't ask though.![]()
I'll give you a name: LOSER
DP. Why so aggressive? Are you jealous that OP may be richer than you? It's very hard to lie on these forms. OP just wants to tinker with what they have to see whether there's anything to be done. That's WISE. The opposite of being a loser.
Why do people on this board just assume the FAFSA and CSS can be fooled? That's not really possible, unless you want to open yourself up to dire consequences. Totally not worth it. But it may be worth it to consult with a financial adviser and talk it through.
I suspect PP is a full paying family. Those families end up paying for people like OP who is gaming the system to pay less. School has to bring in money from somewhere/someone, and, often times, the full paying families carry the load.
Anonymous wrote:Yeah, OP is willing to spend thousands on a financial advisor but not willing to pay what she owes for her kid's education.
Anonymous wrote:Yeah, OP is willing to spend thousands on a financial advisor but not willing to pay what she owes for her kid's education.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I didn't ask "can it be done", I asked for names of people who can advise me what to do. Thanks for answering the question I didn't ask though.![]()
I'll give you a name: LOSER
DP. Why so aggressive? Are you jealous that OP may be richer than you? It's very hard to lie on these forms. OP just wants to tinker with what they have to see whether there's anything to be done. That's WISE. The opposite of being a loser.
Why do people on this board just assume the FAFSA and CSS can be fooled? That's not really possible, unless you want to open yourself up to dire consequences. Totally not worth it. But it may be worth it to consult with a financial adviser and talk it through.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I didn't ask "can it be done", I asked for names of people who can advise me what to do. Thanks for answering the question I didn't ask though.![]()
I'll give you a name: LOSER
Anonymous wrote:I didn't ask "can it be done", I asked for names of people who can advise me what to do. Thanks for answering the question I didn't ask though.![]()