Anonymous
Post 08/10/2022 18:29     Subject: New to IVF- not infertility specifically?

I am not sure what you want -- you want treatment but dont know if there is a problem? or genetic testing? treatment can be really, really hard and not taken lightly and i don't understand WHAT you woudld be treating? hy wouldn't you try now and if you are concerne do testing -- but it seem crazy to go through IVF for instance when you have no issues and are likely to get pregnant on your own.
Anonymous
Post 08/10/2022 17:24     Subject: Re:New to IVF- not infertility specifically?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP, I understand what you are discussing. Pregnancy loss through miscarriage is very hard. Just because you have been blessed with two children subsequently doesn’t make the memories of earlier grief disappear. Understandably you want to avoid future loss. IVF with PGT-A (preimplantation genetic testing for aneuploidies) reduces the risk of miscarriage for chromosomal abnormalities. An embryo found to be chromosomally normal, or euploid, is most likely to be able to result in a successful pregnancy.

I am in my early 40s and have frozen eggs from when I was younger. DH and I have discussed the risk vs benefit of trying naturally at our age vs IVF with genetic testing using my younger eggs. I can see it both ways. However, personally, it would be very hard for me to terminate based on results of a NIPT test at 10 weeks gestation. I would rather know prior to pregnancy and not transfer those embryos.

There can be miscarriage with tested/euploid embryos but the risk is reduced. Also, as people on this forum will point out, there are plenty of problems that children can have which are not screened for with PGT-A. I maintain, however, that it stacks the deck in your favor to have a euploid embryo-if you still have the ovarian reserve and egg quality to make one.

Clinics will work with you. It’s your decision! Best wishes whatever you decide!



And those are the lines clinics will use to take your money even though they can’t guarantee any better, or less emotionally painful, results than unprotected sex.


+1000 OP, you should try six months and revisit
Anonymous
Post 08/10/2022 17:23     Subject: Re:New to IVF- not infertility specifically?

Huh??? The reason that most people seek infertility treatment is because they are unable to get pregnant, not that they have multiple pregnancies including pregnancy loss. Get a clue.
Anonymous
Post 08/07/2022 20:24     Subject: New to IVF- not infertility specifically?

OP, the situation you describe is pretty much the reason most people pursue fertility treatment. You'd very much be a typical patient although it might be more common for couples at an older age trying to have their first rather than their third, but there are plenty of couple who pursue IVF for secondary infertility. The testing is most likely covered by your insurance so there's no reason not to seek a consultation. It's also a great idea to go now rather than trying for a long time first, because if you are over 35 or especially over 40, time is of the essence. Good luck!
Anonymous
Post 08/04/2022 20:09     Subject: New to IVF- not infertility specifically?

Many clinics in the DC area will allow you to pick which embryo to implant. I know for CCRM will. The Medical Director told me himself.
Anonymous
Post 08/04/2022 13:33     Subject: Re:New to IVF- not infertility specifically?

Anonymous wrote:You can certainly do it. People do it for gender selection or to ensure that they don't pass on a hereditary genetic disease or something. However, it's no guarantee that your baby will be healthy or that you will avoid a miscarriage. And your insurance won't cover it unless you pretend you are experiencing infertility.

Fifteen years ago Shady Grove wouldn’t allow us to select embryos based on their sex, even though the type of infertility we had that required IVF with ICSI could only be passed to children of one sex. They called that “family balancing,” even though it was for medical reasons and not a preference, and they said they wouldn’t do it. You can’t necessarily buy any service you want at any clinic.
Anonymous
Post 08/04/2022 13:18     Subject: New to IVF- not infertility specifically?

Of course you can if you’d like to pay for it.
Anonymous
Post 08/04/2022 12:56     Subject: Re:New to IVF- not infertility specifically?

No, I am a thoughtful person who considers this topic in my personal life and wants the OP to know she isn’t alone.
I am a nurse, but work in oncology (cancer).
Anonymous
Post 08/04/2022 12:51     Subject: Re:New to IVF- not infertility specifically?

Anonymous wrote:OP, I understand what you are discussing. Pregnancy loss through miscarriage is very hard. Just because you have been blessed with two children subsequently doesn’t make the memories of earlier grief disappear. Understandably you want to avoid future loss. IVF with PGT-A (preimplantation genetic testing for aneuploidies) reduces the risk of miscarriage for chromosomal abnormalities. An embryo found to be chromosomally normal, or euploid, is most likely to be able to result in a successful pregnancy.

I am in my early 40s and have frozen eggs from when I was younger. DH and I have discussed the risk vs benefit of trying naturally at our age vs IVF with genetic testing using my younger eggs. I can see it both ways. However, personally, it would be very hard for me to terminate based on results of a NIPT test at 10 weeks gestation. I would rather know prior to pregnancy and not transfer those embryos.

There can be miscarriage with tested/euploid embryos but the risk is reduced. Also, as people on this forum will point out, there are plenty of problems that children can have which are not screened for with PGT-A. I maintain, however, that it stacks the deck in your favor to have a euploid embryo-if you still have the ovarian reserve and egg quality to make one.

Clinics will work with you. It’s your decision! Best wishes whatever you decide!


Sounds very much like you work at a clinic.
Anonymous
Post 08/04/2022 12:51     Subject: Re:New to IVF- not infertility specifically?

Previous poster (12:37) again.
Three concrete suggestions:
1. Theralogix pre-conception vitamin and COQ10 are recommended by my doctor: https://theralogix.com/products/theranatal-ovavite-preconception-vitamins-91-day-supply?gclid=EAIaIQobChMIq42R6M-t-QIVgonICh3EEAxxEAQYAiABEgJMTPD_BwE

2. You can book a consult visit at Shady Grove Fertility or another place. (SHF is where I did my initial consult when freezing and it was efficient.) They will analyze your husband’s sperm and run blood tests and an ultrasound on you. It’s helpful information regardless of whether you do IVF or not.

3. The book “It starts with the egg” has information on optimization of both egg and sperm health. This book is frequently mentioned on fertility forums etc. Worth a look! https://www.amazon.com/s?k=it+starts+with+egg&adgrpid=55035309254&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIkobH8s-t-QIVuPvjBx3qxAKhEAAYASAAEgJrpPD_BwE&hvadid=274722514526&hvdev=m&hvlocphy=9021455&hvnetw=g&hvqmt=e&hvrand=666738437307030408&hvtargid=kwd-344034369831&hydadcr=15176_9602975&tag=hydsma-20&ref=pd_sl_43c1d6fu04_e