Once I bought what I thought was a very cute set at Victoria Secret. When I appeared in front of my exH in that, he started laughing like crazy. He said I looked like a Barbie and he didn't feel like being Ken that night at all

Since then I didn't try. We divorced

It makes me feel sexy and helps me get turned on, so yeah, I wear it sometimes. DH prefers me naked lol, but he knows the lingerie means I'm in the mood and putting in effort, so he certainly doesn't mind.

I'm a bit of an outlyer. I was awakened one night early in our marriage by a raging fire in the apartment next to us -- the wall that was burning was our bedroom wall and we had to rush to get out of the apartment with dogs (no kids) and important documents. I never wear anything to bed now that I can't immediately get up and run out of the house in. Sad, I know. But there it is. Spouse has never said anything otherwise -- I know he gets it and we still have a good sex life.

So…. I have a thing for sexy underwear. I buy it for him. It drives me crazy. I found online stores that sell all different types of stuff for men. I was really nervous the first time I asked him if he would try them. But, he was not against it. He definitely was a little awkward I think at first, but got over it really fast seeing how much it turned me on. He sends me pics sometimes when he wears them; I’m so lucky. It’s a little thing that makes me super into sexy times. My favorites are thongs with fun patterns and kind of short boxer briefs that are mostly lace. I’m really glad he is open to stuff.

Anonymous wrote:I bought lingerie for my beautiful wife years ago as one of several gifts for her birthday. When I asked her why she never wore it, she told me she found the gift rude because it was a gift for me, not her.

You can imagine how our sex life is

I mean you did buy it for you if she didn’t express wanting one. You could have bought it at another time (not a birthday) if that is what you wanted to buy her. This is on you.

I bought lingerie for my beautiful wife years ago as one of several gifts for her birthday. When I asked her why she never wore it, she told me she found the gift rude because it was a gift for me, not her.

You can imagine how our sex life is

The only out fit that *might* be better than naked imo would be some kind of crazy leather outfit with straps everywhere and open on the bottom. I hate frilly lingerie and have told my wife the best outfit is just being naked

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Anonymous wrote:Yes. I’m surprised by these responses, and I think some if these women should give it a try.

I’ve always liked wearing it, but I like it more as I age and don’t look quite as good naked. A garter belt and stockings cover up my stretch marks and c-section shelf, and a quarter cup bra holds my sagging boobs in place. A short satin nightie covers all of it completely. I know a few women who stopped feeling comfortable naked after having children and always wear some kind of lingerie to bed.

I’m the opposite. Like many middle aged moms, I don’t like the way my body has changed after child birth. I don’t wear lingerie as it puts my body on display. That makes me uncomfortable. I’d rather go to bed feeling confident and lingerie just exposed my thick thighs.

It’s my middle more than my thighs that gets to me. I had two ten pound babies (and one normal sized baby), and I did not lose all of the weight. Its like things got stretched and pulled and folded back kind of wrong. I like that lingerie sucks things in and holds things up and covers up other things. I only put on display what I want to have on display .

What do you wear that makes you more confident about your thighs?

It may not be weekly but yes I do wear it.

What do you wear for her? Do you have fun underwear? Do you dress stylish or just wear T-shirts and shorts/jeans all the time?

Anonymous wrote:Yes. I’m surprised by these responses, and I think some if these women should give it a try.

I’ve always liked wearing it, but I like it more as I age and don’t look quite as good naked. A garter belt and stockings cover up my stretch marks and c-section shelf, and a quarter cup bra holds my sagging boobs in place. A short satin nightie covers all of it completely. I know a few women who stopped feeling comfortable naked after having children and always wear some kind of lingerie to bed.

I’m the opposite. Like many middle aged moms, I don’t like the way my body has changed after child birth. I don’t wear lingerie as it puts my body on display. That makes me uncomfortable. I’d rather go to bed feeling confident and lingerie just exposed my thick thighs.

Yes. I’m surprised by these responses, and I think some if these women should give it a try.

I’ve always liked wearing it, but I like it more as I age and don’t look quite as good naked. A garter belt and stockings cover up my stretch marks and c-section shelf, and a quarter cup bra holds my sagging boobs in place. A short satin nightie covers all of it completely. I know a few women who stopped feeling comfortable naked after having children and always wear some kind of lingerie to bed.

Dh has always expressed abivalence for it.

Anonymous wrote:I told H I’d start wearing it when he did. So far he hasn’t.

Be careful what you wish for

Anonymous wrote:No, I'm not convinced that DH is into it or I would. The biggest compliment I got from him was when I tried on a new nightgown that looked super frumpy IMO...he loved it.

So that means he is into it. Why are you not convinced?