Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:“Our team also called out people making their kids available for the A meet and then pulling out last minute.”
That sounds really odd. Unless it is Covid why would people not know what they can or cannot swim way ahead of time.
By last minute you mean the day of or after the line up is out which is usually a few days before?
I know some people mark availability at the beginning of the season and then forget to change it but agree that pulling out at the last minute, aka that morning, seems odd and inconsiderate and in our team's case it's been kids who are showing signs of illness like they wake up with a fever or stomach problems.
Anonymous wrote:“Our team also called out people making their kids available for the A meet and then pulling out last minute.”
That sounds really odd. Unless it is Covid why would people not know what they can or cannot swim way ahead of time.
Anonymous wrote:I felt dissatisfied with our coaching but assumed it was just me until the parent reps sent out an email earlier today.
They’re calling a parent meeting for this week to discuss the future of the team and how to provide a better experience for kids, parents, volunteers, etc. For our team, it looks like the lackluster coaching, A-team parents who don’t sign their kids out of meets and keep others from having opportunities to swim, and refusal of parents to volunteer (all huge issues this season) has finally blown up and is getting addressed.
Anonymous wrote:I felt dissatisfied with our coaching but assumed it was just me until the parent reps sent out an email earlier today.
They’re calling a parent meeting for this week to discuss the future of the team and how to provide a better experience for kids, parents, volunteers, etc. For our team, it looks like the lackluster coaching, A-team parents who don’t sign their kids out of meets and keep others from having opportunities to swim, and refusal of parents to volunteer (all huge issues this season) has finally blown up and is getting addressed.
Anonymous wrote:OP here- thanks for all the helpful feedback! Good to know their is a range and I should lower my expectations. However, I can’t get over the lack of encouragement. Example- we had a relay recently and for many kids, it was their very first time doing one. Zero prep before morning of- which is fine- but coach was actually present at start/finish and I watched as there was zero acknowledgment as swimmers got out of the pool- no matter how they swam. No high five, “good job”, Pat on back or anything. I feel like that is basic coaching 101.
I will be looking at year round swim starting this Fall.
Anonymous wrote:Wow, our college age coaches charge $40 for a 30 min lesson.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We have a huge team with lots of year round swim kids in the older ages. Only some kids get picked for A meets. But they all practice at the same time and there is not splitting out to A swimmers and B swimmers during practice.
My view as mom of one older year round swimmer and one younger summer inly swimmer. Normal practices are not really enough for them to learn the stroke mechanics well enough. You need to add some of the one on one lessons or at least small group clinics (ours offers these for a small extra fee). It is just too many kids on a large team.
In my view if there is favoritism or different treatment of A meet vs B meet kids in any way other than selection for Sat swimming then it is a toxic team feel I would not want my kids on. It should be one big full team - some of which swims on Sat.
Our team doesn’t separate out to A swimmers and B swimmers per se, the kids are separated by age groups, the 8 and unders, early ES, late ES, middle school, and HS, but they do move kids into different practice groups based on ability. Essentially all the club kids are in the HS practice group regardless of their age. I think this is helpful because then you don’t have the 10 year old club kid swimming with their age group, who can’t keep up with them and then get salty about that kid being the best all the time. If you want the club kids to come to practice you also can’t have the 10-12 year old club kids swim with their age group because they get nothing out of that practice. The mix of ages in my kid’s practice group has been fun for them, they make a point to go to summer practice after club practice at least once a week and feel like they also get something out of it.
My club swimmer loves swimming with her age group.
Anonymous wrote:We have a huge team with lots of year round swim kids in the older ages. Only some kids get picked for A meets. But they all practice at the same time and there is not splitting out to A swimmers and B swimmers during practice.
My view as mom of one older year round swimmer and one younger summer inly swimmer. Normal practices are not really enough for them to learn the stroke mechanics well enough. You need to add some of the one on one lessons or at least small group clinics (ours offers these for a small extra fee). It is just too many kids on a large team.
In my view if there is favoritism or different treatment of A meet vs B meet kids in any way other than selection for Sat swimming then it is a toxic team feel I would not want my kids on. It should be one big full team - some of which swims on Sat.