Anonymous wrote:Make a Peruvian dish! I would much prefer trying that than traditional American potluck fare.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are you going to pot lucks that do not have the same participants? If so, ask the maker of a popular dish for the recipe and take that dish to a different potluck with different people.
When you ask for the recipe, explain what you did here and also assure the person that you will not make the dish for potlucks the person will be attending so they know you aren't 'stealing' their recipe - you'd be surprised how possessive people can be about common recipes. Be complimentary and self-effacing and hopefully the person is nice enough to want to help you; I would.
What?! Is this the "immigrant as subservient person" trope? Ridiculous. Just do something simple, OP, and call it a day. No need to twist yourself into knots and agonize.
This was my advice and I'm not an immigrant. Sorry you wouldn't find it helpful, but I'm someone who doesn't cook much but wants to cook something people will like. To me it's a lot easier to ask a person at work for their recipe and bring it to a neighborhood potluck (or vice versa) than try to figure out what would taste good to others. For the other person above, all recipes are borrowed; very rarely are people creating their own recipes.
But hey, it's just advice, feel free to take it or leave it if it doesn't suit you.
You're literally advising her to keep track of who she borrowed each recipe from with a promise to never bring it to a potluck they will be at, to avoid offending them at future parties. It's not the borrowed part that's a PITA, it's your proposed rolodex.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Make a Peruvian dish! I would much prefer trying that than traditional American potluck fare.
+1 Bring something you know how to make that can sit out for a couple of hours. Don't try to recreate 1950s American dishes.
As a bonus, this way if nobody eats it you can just tell yourself they're provincial, not that it was bad.![]()
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are you going to pot lucks that do not have the same participants? If so, ask the maker of a popular dish for the recipe and take that dish to a different potluck with different people.
When you ask for the recipe, explain what you did here and also assure the person that you will not make the dish for potlucks the person will be attending so they know you aren't 'stealing' their recipe - you'd be surprised how possessive people can be about common recipes. Be complimentary and self-effacing and hopefully the person is nice enough to want to help you; I would.
What?! Is this the "immigrant as subservient person" trope? Ridiculous. Just do something simple, OP, and call it a day. No need to twist yourself into knots and agonize.
This was my advice and I'm not an immigrant. Sorry you wouldn't find it helpful, but I'm someone who doesn't cook much but wants to cook something people will like. To me it's a lot easier to ask a person at work for their recipe and bring it to a neighborhood potluck (or vice versa) than try to figure out what would taste good to others. For the other person above, all recipes are borrowed; very rarely are people creating their own recipes.
But hey, it's just advice, feel free to take it or leave it if it doesn't suit you.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are you going to pot lucks that do not have the same participants? If so, ask the maker of a popular dish for the recipe and take that dish to a different potluck with different people.
When you ask for the recipe, explain what you did here and also assure the person that you will not make the dish for potlucks the person will be attending so they know you aren't 'stealing' their recipe - you'd be surprised how possessive people can be about common recipes. Be complimentary and self-effacing and hopefully the person is nice enough to want to help you; I would.
What?! Is this the "immigrant as subservient person" trope? Ridiculous. Just do something simple, OP, and call it a day. No need to twist yourself into knots and agonize.
Anonymous wrote:Never peanuts. Sundried tomatoes are very passe. You are right to be asking for current suggestions
Anonymous wrote:Make a Peruvian dish! I would much prefer trying that than traditional American potluck fare.
Anonymous wrote:Are you going to pot lucks that do not have the same participants? If so, ask the maker of a popular dish for the recipe and take that dish to a different potluck with different people.
When you ask for the recipe, explain what you did here and also assure the person that you will not make the dish for potlucks the person will be attending so they know you aren't 'stealing' their recipe - you'd be surprised how possessive people can be about common recipes. Be complimentary and self-effacing and hopefully the person is nice enough to want to help you; I would.
Anonymous wrote:Are you going to pot lucks that do not have the same participants? If so, ask the maker of a popular dish for the recipe and take that dish to a different potluck with different people.
When you ask for the recipe, explain what you did here and also assure the person that you will not make the dish for potlucks the person will be attending so they know you aren't 'stealing' their recipe - you'd be surprised how possessive people can be about common recipes. Be complimentary and self-effacing and hopefully the person is nice enough to want to help you; I would.