Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Am I really mixed up… how was your mother baking for your FIL?
My mother got remarried (to my FIL) when I was 12 yo. They have been married for ~40 years, during which time she baked often. A few years ago my mother started showing signs of dementia, which steadily advanced to the point where she had to be admitted to a full time memory care facility. My mother doesn't even know who I am anymore when I visit, and has trouble putting together basic sentences. So there's no chance of asking her for recipes etc. My FIL continues to live at their private home as he is still of sound mind and capable of self care.
Forgot to say it was OP replying - but I guess that's obvious. Wanted to thank everyone for the great suggestions.
Wow your mom married your FIL? That’s wacky!
Sorry Step Father, I'm sorry for the confusion. With Fathers Day coming I've got both in my head.
Anonymous wrote:Cheryl's Cookies

Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Am I really mixed up… how was your mother baking for your FIL?
My mother got remarried (to my FIL) when I was 12 yo. They have been married for ~40 years, during which time she baked often. A few years ago my mother started showing signs of dementia, which steadily advanced to the point where she had to be admitted to a full time memory care facility. My mother doesn't even know who I am anymore when I visit, and has trouble putting together basic sentences. So there's no chance of asking her for recipes etc. My FIL continues to live at their private home as he is still of sound mind and capable of self care.
Forgot to say it was OP replying - but I guess that's obvious. Wanted to thank everyone for the great suggestions.
Wow your mom married your FIL? That’s wacky!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Am I really mixed up… how was your mother baking for your FIL?
My mother got remarried (to my FIL) when I was 12 yo. They have been married for ~40 years, during which time she baked often. A few years ago my mother started showing signs of dementia, which steadily advanced to the point where she had to be admitted to a full time memory care facility. My mother doesn't even know who I am anymore when I visit, and has trouble putting together basic sentences. So there's no chance of asking her for recipes etc. My FIL continues to live at their private home as he is still of sound mind and capable of self care.
Forgot to say it was OP replying - but I guess that's obvious. Wanted to thank everyone for the great suggestions.
Wow your mom married your FIL? That’s wacky!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Am I really mixed up… how was your mother baking for your FIL?
My mother got remarried (to my FIL) when I was 12 yo. They have been married for ~40 years, during which time she baked often. A few years ago my mother started showing signs of dementia, which steadily advanced to the point where she had to be admitted to a full time memory care facility. My mother doesn't even know who I am anymore when I visit, and has trouble putting together basic sentences. So there's no chance of asking her for recipes etc. My FIL continues to live at their private home as he is still of sound mind and capable of self care.
Forgot to say it was OP replying - but I guess that's obvious. Wanted to thank everyone for the great suggestions.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Am I really mixed up… how was your mother baking for your FIL?
My mother got remarried (to my FIL) when I was 12 yo. They have been married for ~40 years, during which time she baked often. A few years ago my mother started showing signs of dementia, which steadily advanced to the point where she had to be admitted to a full time memory care facility. My mother doesn't even know who I am anymore when I visit, and has trouble putting together basic sentences. So there's no chance of asking her for recipes etc. My FIL continues to live at their private home as he is still of sound mind and capable of self care.
Anonymous wrote:Am I really mixed up… how was your mother baking for your FIL?
Anonymous wrote:Zingermans coffee cakes!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:He'd probably like it best if you made one of your mom's recipes for him and mailed it yourself. That would be very thoughtful.
Unfortunately my mother is in a memory care facility due to advanced dementia, so we don't have any recipes. I'm sure my wife would help if we did.
That's so sad. Does he have a favorite dessert? Goldbelly has so many options from really good places, I'd try to send him a favorite from there.
OP here. He likes pecan pie (and many other holiday pies), all sorts of cookies and things like banana and pumpkin breads. Thanks for the suggestion