Anonymous wrote:My kid has a 3.9 from a FCPA public (with a rigorous course load) and we’ve been told by a private college counselor that knocks many colleges (and I don’t mean ivies) out of reach for him. So a 3.5 with an average level of rigor is presumably going to have somewhat limited options, although there is always some 4 year college option for anyone who wants it and is willing to pay for it.
This^^^
There will be a college for everyone. However, if you only have a 3.4/3.5 UW gpa in HS, you probably do not belong at an Ivy/T20 school, unless you were at an extremely rigorous HS. Why would you want your kid who could only get a 3.4 GPA at a university where most kids had 3.9+ UW gpa and well over 1500 SAT? I wouldn't want to be or have my kid a school where they might be struggling to keep up.
However, my 3.55UW HS gpa DC graduated from a T80 university with a 3.4 GPA (which was dragged down by a freshman year attempt at premed courses, so there were several "lower" grades that kid never would have taken for their ultimate major) There was plenty of rigor for my DC at this university. DC is gainfully employed post graduation at a great company. If they had gone to a T40 school DC would have likely really struggled and felt like they were always at the "bottom" of the ladder and that's not good for mental health. Much better to be at a school where you are in the middle of the student population academically (unless being at the "bottom" is having a 1540 and 4.35 at a T20 school--at T20 schools and really T50 the difference between the top and bottom are minimal).