Anonymous
05/26/2022 22:49
Subject: Re:First overnight trip with new boyfriend and I'm nervous
I'm surprised you've dated for 4 months and haven't farted or pooped around each other. You guys need to loosen up.
Also, most men love women best when they're less dolled up and more natural. They're not naive about how aging works.
Also, most men love women best when they're less dolled up and more natural. They're not naive about how aging works.
Anonymous
05/26/2022 22:34
Subject: First overnight trip with new boyfriend and I'm nervous
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You sleep with make up on?!
op: when he stays over, yes.
That’s nasty
Anonymous
05/26/2022 22:31
Subject: First overnight trip with new boyfriend and I'm nervous
Poo~Pourri works like a charm. I get that it's a lot of time together, and your other concerns, but relax and have fun. I don't think you're crazy abt any of things, btw. Just a little anxious. I think it's normal.
Anonymous
05/26/2022 22:18
Subject: First overnight trip with new boyfriend and I'm nervous
[guardian]
and his poop is stinky too, run the fan and use normal body spray for few puffs after #2
he’ll only care about the sex, really, do something special, shave it all or something
Anonymous wrote:He knows you poop, fyi.
and his poop is stinky too, run the fan and use normal body spray for few puffs after #2
he’ll only care about the sex, really, do something special, shave it all or something
Anonymous
05/26/2022 21:55
Subject: First overnight trip with new boyfriend and I'm nervous
Not normal, but maybe normal for your sitch. Wake up at 6am, run to the bathroom and fix your hair and makeup. There are also misting sprays that are for extended wear.Anonymous wrote:We're both in our 40's, divorced, and have been together for 4 months and have been sleeping together. This weekend we're going on our first trip together and I'm nervous.
First, it's a lot of time together- 3.5 hour car ride each way and then together for at least 72 hours.
Second, he is going to see me with no makeup, no hair done, etc. I have never showered in front of him.
Are these normal things to be nervous about? Or do I sounds crazy?
Anonymous
05/26/2022 21:50
Subject: First overnight trip with new boyfriend and I'm nervous
Anonymous wrote:We're both in our 40's, divorced, and have been together for 4 months and have been sleeping together. This weekend we're going on our first trip together and I'm nervous.
First, it's a lot of time together- 3.5 hour car ride each way and then together for at least 72 hours.
Second, he is going to see me with no makeup, no hair done, etc. I have never showered in front of him.
Are these normal things to be nervous about? Or do I sounds crazy?
Not crazy
Anonymous
05/26/2022 21:41
Subject: Re:First overnight trip with new boyfriend and I'm nervous
Anonymous wrote:I would be nervous, too. I blow dry my hair after a shower, and I’d be worried that would annoy him. It definitely annoys my husband!Plus I look awful without a little makeup. Ugh. I can never leave my husband who seems to like me anyway. I understand, OP, just be confident and be yourself, and if he doesn’t like you, better not to waste any more time with him!
I have had huge fights with my husband over this in hotels. My hair drying interferes with his television watching. Maybe an idea for a separate thread, why does my normal-at-home husband become an asshole in a hotel/on vacation?
Anonymous
05/26/2022 21:38
Subject: Re:First overnight trip with new boyfriend and I'm nervous
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’d be more worried about pooping than makeup.
Yes! This is what I care about. So awkward.
Is bringing spray to cover up any smell recommended?
I think if you have a small travel cologne that is mild- like Jo Malone. A travel tin candle is also nice for the room.
Anonymous
05/26/2022 21:03
Subject: First overnight trip with new boyfriend and I'm nervous
U Gon be S’ing his D and he won’t care about makeup or anything like that for real
Anonymous
05/26/2022 20:29
Subject: First overnight trip with new boyfriend and I'm nervous
He knows you poop, fyi. 
Anonymous
05/26/2022 20:26
Subject: Re:First overnight trip with new boyfriend and I'm nervous
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’d be more worried about pooping than makeup.
Yes! This is what I care about. So awkward.
Is bringing spray to cover up any smell recommended?
DP. That's a good idea. Matches also work well.
Anonymous
05/26/2022 20:22
Subject: Re:First overnight trip with new boyfriend and I'm nervous
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, I was nervous about these things too for our first trip together with my DH, I think it's normal. But I bet you care a lot more about this stuff than your boyfriend does, so don't let your worries sidetrack you from having fun and enjoying your trip. FWIW our first trip was a disaster lol, but we are still together.
op: thank you. Good to hear. Why was it a disaster?
Yeah I was nervous about all the things - stinky poops, farting in my sleep, and just spending so much time together all at once. But he didn't care about any of those things, even though I was mortified.
It wasn't a disaster for any of those reasons though - it was because it was a poorly planned trip, and he had a really bad reaction to the time difference - his brain shut down and he was loopy for days and I had to babysit him.
Anonymous
05/26/2022 20:18
Subject: First overnight trip with new boyfriend and I'm nervous
Not crazy! But you will be fine.
Anonymous
05/26/2022 20:14
Subject: Re:First overnight trip with new boyfriend and I'm nervous
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’d be more worried about pooping than makeup.
Yes! This is what I care about. So awkward.
Is bringing spray to cover up any smell recommended?
Anonymous
05/26/2022 20:09
Subject: Re:First overnight trip with new boyfriend and I'm nervous
Anonymous wrote:I’d be more worried about pooping than makeup.
Yes! This is what I care about. So awkward.