Anonymous wrote:The only instance where this would be above board is if she's getting college credit
I was going to say this. The first semester my kid did science research for a prof at his college he got departmental credit. After that, she was able to get him paid under a grant for the summer and the next year. I suppose we technically paid for the first semester, although not above what we would have paid anyway for tuition. That makes sense to me for a kid looking at grad school in science. He was named on the paper, etc.
Then again, I’m sure your friend can make decisions for her DD.