Anonymous wrote:A lot of places seem to have the service charge included in your bill. Then I don't tip.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My wife and I went out to eat breakfast with a group of friends yesterday, we had a great time. As I was signing our check, I noticed that my friend didn't tip our waitress on his part of his check. I was so embarrassed, when my wife and her friend went to the bathroom, I told him you forgot to tip, he responded with I don't always tip, I was just surprised and disappointed in him. My friend and I work together, and I just lost respect for him because he makes decent amount of money and it's wrong not the tip period. My question is basically how many of you tip or tip something but not 20% or more?
Did you check the bill closely? When it's a group, they often include the tip in the bill these days.
And I find most people get over the top with the tipping because they believe they are being benevolent and giving alms to the poor. I have found that really rich people just don't approach it that way.
Anonymous wrote:My wife and I went out to eat breakfast with a group of friends yesterday, we had a great time. As I was signing our check, I noticed that my friend didn't tip our waitress on his part of his check. I was so embarrassed, when my wife and her friend went to the bathroom, I told him you forgot to tip, he responded with I don't always tip, I was just surprised and disappointed in him. My friend and I work together, and I just lost respect for him because he makes decent amount of money and it's wrong not the tip period. My question is basically how many of you tip or tip something but not 20% or more?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:When eat in, no tip is wrong. If you lost respect because someone tip less than your standard, then you are wrong.
Uh, OP's friend didn't tip at all. They're a mingy cheapskate and deserve the attendant loss of respect. I'd never dine out with them again.
This. I probably wouldn't blow up the friendship over it, but I'd never eat out with them again in a restaurant with the uncivilized behavior.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:When eat in, no tip is wrong. If you lost respect because someone tip less than your standard, then you are wrong.
Uh, OP's friend didn't tip at all. They're a mingy cheapskate and deserve the attendant loss of respect. I'd never dine out with them again.
Anonymous wrote:Tipping is a horrible, racist practice. It should definitely stop. Having said that, I think of tipping as my contribution to charity and always tip 25%. I wouldn't care what my friend did and I certainly wouldn't have reminded him to tip.
Tipping as a practice puts the economic risk of running a business onto the workers and lets the owners run the business for far less and profit more than the would otherwise. Don't say that the restaurants would close - that's a restaurant owner talking point.
In Australia, for example, restaurant staff are paid fairly, tipping is not used and restaurants still exist.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:In this country we still tip. So the argument that it’s not our responsibility or we’re creating a dynamic of inequity doesn’t work. Until it’s changed tip, cheapskate
It won't change until people stop tipping. You have it backwards. Let people do what they feel is right and stop judging.
Anonymous wrote:When eat in, no tip is wrong. If you lost respect because someone tip less than your standard, then you are wrong.
And you jumped on a thread you weren’t interested in. Hmm, how boring is your day?Anonymous wrote:Oh yay! ANOTHER tipping thread. As we so rarely discuss that here. Fascinating.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:In this country we still tip. So the argument that it’s not our responsibility or we’re creating a dynamic of inequity doesn’t work. Until it’s changed tip, cheapskate
It won't change until people stop tipping. You have it backwards. Let people do what they feel is right and stop judging.
Oh awesome. So we stiff workers until you get your way. that makes complete sense!
here we go again. i'll spit in your food if you don't tip poster?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:In this country we still tip. So the argument that it’s not our responsibility or we’re creating a dynamic of inequity doesn’t work. Until it’s changed tip, cheapskate
It won't change until people stop tipping. You have it backwards. Let people do what they feel is right and stop judging.
Oh awesome. So we stiff workers until you get your way. that makes complete sense!