Anonymous
Post 03/25/2022 12:24     Subject: Re:What men want
Anonymous wrote:Obviously, not all men are the same. But...

I am definitely in the camp of men who are happy on a fairly short list. Good company, loves sex, travel, and hopefully dogs. I don't need a lot of deep reflection and I work a very demanding job where I get my intellectual stimulation, I make way more that I ever need so I don't need someone who makes money.



Same.
Anonymous
Post 03/25/2022 12:23     Subject: Re:What men want
Men don’t insist on a high-salary earner. Men also don’t look for a woman with “power.”

Conversely, woman are attracted to power and money.
Anonymous
Post 03/25/2022 12:23     Subject: What men want
If you want kids, find someone who can be a good mom or dad. You would want kindness, patience and morals. You’ll also want decent maternal/paternal family for kids. You wouldn’t want high debt or low income.
Anonymous
Post 03/25/2022 12:21     Subject: Re:What men want
Obviously, not all men are the same. But...

I am definitely in the camp of men who are happy on a fairly short list. Good company, loves sex, travel, and hopefully dogs. I don't need a lot of deep reflection and I work a very demanding job where I get my intellectual stimulation, I make way more that I ever need so I don't need someone who makes money.

Anonymous
Post 03/25/2022 12:20     Subject: Re:What men want
Anonymous wrote:Mine wanted very intelligent, hot, good career, well-read, zero debt, athletic/works out regularly, funny, good family, good in the sack, FUN, and gets along with his friends.

This is why I met him at 24 and we married a few years later when he had sworn to himself never to marry before 30.

He is very picky. He came from a working single mom and all of his Aunts are very intelligent (PhDs, etc) that are single women too. He didn't want just dumb and hot to procreate with.


But, I'll add 'to date', 'just to screw' vs 'to marry and have children with' are very different criteria. No men are picky with the former, even if they are very picky with the latter. Rightly so.
Anonymous
Post 03/25/2022 12:19     Subject: What men want
Anonymous wrote:Smart, fun, sexy, and playful; I don’t care about income, education, social class or her job.


Smart, fun, sexy and playful with good education and decent finances. A good balanced life requires reality check.
Anonymous
Post 03/25/2022 12:19     Subject: What men want
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Are men in general less picky when it comes to their partner, compared to women? I.e., as long as they have regular sex, are attracted to them, can carry a somewhat decent conversation, and that’s it?


They want a young, hot, educated, employed yet flexible enough to be SAHM woman who can take care of husbands, kids, home, social life and in-laws and still have energy to have twice daily sex.

no, they want the woman to both work FT, bring home half the income, AND do 80% of the housechores and childcare, AND have energy for sex and desire for the lazy husbands 2x/daily.
Anonymous
Post 03/25/2022 12:18     Subject: Re:What men want
Mine wanted very intelligent, hot, good career, well-read, zero debt, athletic/works out regularly, funny, good family, good in the sack, FUN, and gets along with his friends.

This is why I met him at 24 and we married a few years later when he had sworn to himself never to marry before 30.

He is very picky. He came from a working single mom and all of his Aunts are very intelligent (PhDs, etc) that are single women too. He didn't want just dumb and hot to procreate with.
Anonymous
Post 03/25/2022 12:17     Subject: What men want
Anonymous wrote:Smart, fun, sexy, and playful; I don’t care about income, education, social class or her job.


All have value in long term. Finances can suck fun and pretty faces can have ugly inside.
Anonymous
Post 03/25/2022 12:16     Subject: What men want
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Someone who has no debt, good education, decent job, good income, decent family, kind nature and good morals. Good looking but not too pretty to be narcissistic or adulterous.


Wrong. Pretty enough, fun enough, educated enough, a job.


So your'e okay with a rude nature and bad morals?


This^. If you are dating, looks and fun have more value but if including someone for long term, kindness and morals should’ve more weight.
Anonymous
Post 03/25/2022 12:16     Subject: What men want
Smart, fun, sexy, and playful; I don’t care about income, education, social class or her job.
Anonymous
Post 03/25/2022 12:14     Subject: What men want
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Someone who has no debt, good education, decent job, good income, decent family, kind nature and good morals. Good looking but not too pretty to be narcissistic or adulterous.


Wrong. Pretty enough, fun enough, educated enough, a job.


You don’t want to inherit anyone’s personal, financial or family drama, no matter how pretty or fun they are. Looks doesn’t last with age and fun doesn’t last with debt or drama.
Anonymous
Post 03/25/2022 12:03     Subject: What men want
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Someone who has no debt, good education, decent job, good income, decent family, kind nature and good morals. Good looking but not too pretty to be narcissistic or adulterous.


Wrong. Pretty enough, fun enough, educated enough, a job.


So your'e okay with a rude nature and bad morals?
Anonymous
Post 03/25/2022 12:01     Subject: What men want
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Someone who has no debt, good education, decent job, good income, decent family, kind nature and good morals. Good looking but not too pretty to be narcissistic or adulterous.


Wrong. Pretty enough, fun enough, educated enough, a job.


For you, may be different for others.
Anonymous
Post 03/25/2022 11:46     Subject: What men want
Anonymous wrote:Someone who has no debt, good education, decent job, good income, decent family, kind nature and good morals. Good looking but not too pretty to be narcissistic or adulterous.


Wrong. Pretty enough, fun enough, educated enough, a job.