Anonymous wrote:OP, you both have hormonal issues if it's sexless and you're happy. Or someone's on meds (SSRIs?) that cause it. Not normal for either of you. He should get checked for low T, you should get your hormones checked and you should ideally be in therapy. You're missing out on a huge bonding thing.

Low T is a pharma company invented myth.

DH has a low drive, much much lower than mine. But I’m an adult, not a teen with no impulse control or ability to recognize a happy marriage is more important than one aspect of life.

Op, nobody thinks the other is cheating until they catch them. You never really know.

Your friend is jealous. I would not listen to your friend. She wants to take away your calm. If you are alright with the situation and sonis your husband then you don't need to get divorced. You need to find new friends. Also stop sharing so much.

Don’t be too quick to rule out divorce, PP. if you are unhappy and your husband is unhappy your kids will pick up on it. If you model for them that it’s normal to remain in a relationship we’re you are unhappy, or worse, marry someone in that situation, imagine the consequences that could have for them.

So…you don’t have to work and your husband is super involved with your kids and your situation works for you and you’re mostly happy? But you want to get a divorce? So you can see your kids half the time, be alone with them when you have them, get a job, and be single? Ok.

Anonymous wrote:OP, you both have hormonal issues if it's sexless and you're happy. Or someone's on meds (SSRIs?) that cause it. Not normal for either of you. He should get checked for low T, you should get your hormones checked and you should ideally be in therapy. You're missing out on a huge bonding thing.

Some people don’t care about sex. They don’t need “hormone checks and therapy.” FFS.

Anonymous wrote:I call troll.

100%

Better check your friends phone for texts to your husband

I don't think people are having as much sex as you think they are. This sounds pretty good.