Anonymous wrote:You only think these cheaters are trashy after you find out. It’s the act that’s trashy not the person. You don’t know whose cheating and who is not. The answers might surprise you.

Not. Always thought they were trashy. They definitely gave off trash vibes at parties, social events, school events, etc. It was more like a 'yeah-I thought that' when cheating was revealed about them.

You only think these cheaters are trashy after you find out. It’s the act that’s trashy not the person. You don’t know whose cheating and who is not. The answers might surprise you.

Anonymous wrote:One cheater I know of just flew home cross-country knowing he had just tested positive for Covid. If someone is a cheater/liar that character defect will manifest in other areas of their life as well.

+100

I know a cheater that met up in a hotel at the height of Covid-April 2020. Way to protect your family, lady.

Anonymous wrote:My dad cheated on my mom during business trips but no, I would not consider him trashy. He was more of a nerdy computer science type.

Bill Gates was a nerd cheater. I think he's disgusting and slimy. A lot of those Epstein clients were degenerates, like your dad.

Bezos and his broad are definitely trashy. Her all over Leo DiCaprio and her multiple affairs--yuck.

The married women cheaters I know were all trashy at parties (even the upscale ones). They gave off the I'll blow you under the table vibes and acted much like Sanchez if there was a ''high value' man around--even in front of their husbands or if it was a co-worker or friend's husband.

No.

Anonymous wrote:Prince Charles was a cheater

And by all accounts he is a weasel that nobody really liked. Definitely trash. Every watch The Crown? Whiny, gross, self-centered dolt who was evil and treated Diana like crap in the early days.

Prince Charles was a cheater

Anonymous wrote:No. One of the worst cheaters I know is Waspy and preppy with impeccable manners and charm.

This does not negate them being trashy. If they are one of the worst cheaters = automatically trashy.

So, yes, OP, all cheaters are trashy. Caught/ not caught, doesn't matter.

In fact, if you are a sneaky, successful cheater, you are the ultimate in trashy, because you are duplicitous and secretly proud of yourself for being so good at deceiving someone you supposedly care about.

My dad cheated on my mom during business trips but no, I would not consider him trashy. He was more of a nerdy computer science type.

Anonymous wrote:In other ways? The act of cheating in itself is a trash move but I find that the person is trashy in other ways as well.

No

Anonymous wrote:The ones who weren’t of low character—made a one-off bad decision in a moment of weakness, asked for forgiveness, never did it again.

The ones who were visibly of low character—did it unrepentantly, felt entitled to do it, only stopped because they were caught (if they ever were at all), would do it again if the opportunity presented itself.

Anecdotal, but I can only speak on what I’ve seen with my own two eyes. I’m sure there are secretly “trashy” people I don’t know about who don’t care if they caught, but that by virtue of itself makes them of low character.

Lying, cheating, deceiving and screwing in motels/sneaking around to not get caught is incredibly sleezy and trashy. Having an online dating profile when you are married---my god, is that trashy. Kissing your spouse and kids goodbye in the morning and bringing a man into your home after they leave is incredibly trashy. The aura is there. The ones that got caught, I always had a slime feel around them. The one woman always was taking selfies with her dumb head cocked to the side and come f'kk me eyes even at 50! Gross. And this cuts across wealth/UMC.

Anonymous wrote:There is a show called Maury that lays out who these people are

Jerry does too

One cheater I know of just flew home cross-country knowing he had just tested positive for Covid. If someone is a cheater/liar that character defect will manifest in other areas of their life as well.

The woman who slept with my ex was very trashy. Tattooed, uneducated, fake tanned, desperate. Oh, and he was also trashy deep down. Put up a good facade for years though.

Yeah, my parents have been in a really good marriage for 40 years and I’m extremely close to them. I would never claim to know if they’ve been monogamous.