Anonymous
03/14/2022 16:58
Subject: my DD was just suspended for vaping on school grounds
Peer pressure is real, this sort of thing happens. Do not over react. Privilege loss.
Anonymous
03/14/2022 16:58
Subject: my DD was just suspended for vaping on school grounds
“Of course” she accepted? WTH? That’s so stupid, obviously she doesn’t know better if she can’t say no to such a stupid request.
Anonymous
03/14/2022 16:58
Subject: Re:my DD was just suspended for vaping on school grounds
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Thank you for this. the friend was also suspended. He admits he brought the vape.
She does have ADHD and an adjustment to meds might be warranted--thank you.
That said, as someone posted, it's STUPID and careless and I'm just so angry and sad. The school is very strict. If it were cigarettes, they'd suspend, too.
I'm thinking about consequences, including having her visit another school during her suspension.
There would be A LOT of consequences at my house during that suspension period. No screens. No books. No door closed. A room search. Lots and lots of housework and yard work. She'd also be getting a pat down before she heads back to school, and I would be accompanying her to the door of school.
Why no books? I would kill for my kid to actually be bored enough to pick up a book.
My kid would receive the following consequences.
1) Doors come off the hinges in their room
2) They would have to write a paper on the dangers of nicotine
3) They would go to rehab if it's bad
4) Phone is confiscated
5) Laptop for schoolwork only and in a public place with parental supervision
6) Random drug tests
7) Random searches of room/backpack, etc.
8) Car privileges revoked
Jesus Christ
Anonymous
03/14/2022 16:57
Subject: Re:my DD was just suspended for vaping on school grounds
I am a fan of ongoing testing in these situations. I wouldn't test proactively but as soon as the trust is gone, testing for the remainder if their time in your house and failed tests = no phone, no car privileges, etc.
Anonymous
03/14/2022 16:53
Subject: Re:my DD was just suspended for vaping on school grounds
Vaping pot? Kids have been expelled from my son's school for that. Vaping nicotine gets a suspension.
Anonymous
03/14/2022 16:53
Subject: my DD was just suspended for vaping on school grounds
Anonymous wrote:It's definitely deserving of being grounded etc. It was dumb. But teens are dumb and do careless things. I'm sure a few of us on here smoked cigarettes as teenagers, but have quit and gone on to become successful, healthy adults. This isn't the end of the world.
It is ridiculous how many teens are vaping these days. In and out of school.
I agree. It is not the end of the world. However, if my kid gets caught there would be huge consequences at home!
Anonymous
03/14/2022 16:49
Subject: Re:my DD was just suspended for vaping on school grounds
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Thank you for this. the friend was also suspended. He admits he brought the vape.
She does have ADHD and an adjustment to meds might be warranted--thank you.
That said, as someone posted, it's STUPID and careless and I'm just so angry and sad. The school is very strict. If it were cigarettes, they'd suspend, too.
I'm thinking about consequences, including having her visit another school during her suspension.
There would be A LOT of consequences at my house during that suspension period. No screens. No books. No door closed. A room search. Lots and lots of housework and yard work. She'd also be getting a pat down before she heads back to school, and I would be accompanying her to the door of school.
Why no books? I would kill for my kid to actually be bored enough to pick up a book.
My kid would receive the following consequences.
1) Doors come off the hinges in their room
2) They would have to write a paper on the dangers of nicotine
3) They would go to rehab if it's bad
4) Phone is confiscated
5) Laptop for schoolwork only and in a public place with parental supervision
6) Random drug tests
7) Random searches of room/backpack, etc.
8) Car privileges revoked
Wtf?
#insaneparents
Anonymous
03/14/2022 16:48
Subject: my DD was just suspended for vaping on school grounds
Anonymous wrote:And what are you doing about it?
If she has ADHD, perhaps she needs a dose adjustment.
What does ADHD have to do with getting caught vaping at school. Am I missing something?
Anonymous
03/14/2022 16:45
Subject: my DD was just suspended for vaping on school grounds
It's definitely deserving of being grounded etc. It was dumb. But teens are dumb and do careless things. I'm sure a few of us on here smoked cigarettes as teenagers, but have quit and gone on to become successful, healthy adults. This isn't the end of the world.
Anonymous
03/14/2022 16:45
Subject: Re:my DD was just suspended for vaping on school grounds
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Thank you for this. the friend was also suspended. He admits he brought the vape.
She does have ADHD and an adjustment to meds might be warranted--thank you.
That said, as someone posted, it's STUPID and careless and I'm just so angry and sad. The school is very strict. If it were cigarettes, they'd suspend, too.
I'm thinking about consequences, including having her visit another school during her suspension.
There would be A LOT of consequences at my house during that suspension period. No screens. No books. No door closed. A room search. Lots and lots of housework and yard work. She'd also be getting a pat down before she heads back to school, and I would be accompanying her to the door of school.
Why no books? I would kill for my kid to actually be bored enough to pick up a book.
My kid would receive the following consequences.
1) Doors come off the hinges in their room
2) They would have to write a paper on the dangers of nicotine
3) They would go to rehab if it's bad
4) Phone is confiscated
5) Laptop for schoolwork only and in a public place with parental supervision
6) Random drug tests
7) Random searches of room/backpack, etc.
8) Car privileges revoked
Anonymous
03/14/2022 16:40
Subject: my DD was just suspended for vaping on school grounds
Anonymous wrote:She knows vaping is illegal. She knows she's not supposed to do it at school. A friend invited her to smoke in the hall. So, of course, she accepted. I'm at a loss.
A lot of her friends vape in parks around the school.
Not surprising with you posting this on here rather than being a parent.
Anonymous
03/14/2022 16:37
Subject: Re:my DD was just suspended for vaping on school grounds
Anonymous wrote:Thank you for this. the friend was also suspended. He admits he brought the vape.
She does have ADHD and an adjustment to meds might be warranted--thank you.
That said, as someone posted, it's STUPID and careless and I'm just so angry and sad. The school is very strict. If it were cigarettes, they'd suspend, too.
I'm thinking about consequences, including having her visit another school during her suspension.
There would be A LOT of consequences at my house during that suspension period. No screens. No books. No door closed. A room search. Lots and lots of housework and yard work. She'd also be getting a pat down before she heads back to school, and I would be accompanying her to the door of school.
Anonymous
03/14/2022 16:37
Subject: my DD was just suspended for vaping on school grounds
“…visit another school…”?
Anonymous
03/14/2022 16:34
Subject: Re:my DD was just suspended for vaping on school grounds
Thank you for this. the friend was also suspended. He admits he brought the vape.
She does have ADHD and an adjustment to meds might be warranted--thank you.
That said, as someone posted, it's STUPID and careless and I'm just so angry and sad. The school is very strict. If it were cigarettes, they'd suspend, too.
I'm thinking about consequences, including having her visit another school during her suspension.
She does have ADHD and an adjustment to meds might be warranted--thank you.
That said, as someone posted, it's STUPID and careless and I'm just so angry and sad. The school is very strict. If it were cigarettes, they'd suspend, too.
I'm thinking about consequences, including having her visit another school during her suspension.
Anonymous
03/14/2022 16:33
Subject: my DD was just suspended for vaping on school grounds
Anonymous wrote:She knows vaping is illegal. She knows she's not supposed to do it at school. A friend invited her to smoke in the hall. So, of course, she accepted. I'm at a loss.
A lot of her friends vape in parks around the school.
A lot of kids vape in the bathrooms at my kids' school in Fairfax County. Same goes for my nephew's school in Loudoun County.
And I honestly think the schools have turned a blind eye to the issue.
Kids know the consequences. I would be livid.