I must watch/listen to too much true crime because when I read "pursue" my mind immediately went to me in detective mode tracking down the suspect and not to a romantic interest.

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Anonymous wrote:Do you have someone in mind you'd pursue?

If you are fantasizing about your spouse vanishing and you being free to pursue people you’ve been eye as backups, you need to pursue a psychiatrist because this isn’t healthy.

+1

I know a divorced woman who eyes a mutual friends husband. What she doesn't know is how abusive and awful he is, IRL. Would serve her right if it came true.

So many women having affairs with men like that who have zero idea who that man really is, abuse, drinking at home, etc. They can put on the live bomb act a few hours a month and these women think they are God’s gift.

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Absolutely agree. So flirtatious and gross! No thanks!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do you have someone in mind you'd pursue?

If you are fantasizing about your spouse vanishing and you being free to pursue people you’ve been eye as backups, you need to pursue a psychiatrist because this isn’t healthy.

+1

I know a divorced woman who eyes a mutual friends husband. What she doesn't know is how abusive and awful he is, IRL. Would serve her right if it came true.

So many women having affairs with men like that who have zero idea who that man really is, abuse, drinking at home, etc. They can put on the live bomb act a few hours a month and these women think they are God’s gift.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do you have someone in mind you'd pursue?

If you are fantasizing about your spouse vanishing and you being free to pursue people you’ve been eye as backups, you need to pursue a psychiatrist because this isn’t healthy.

+1

I know a divorced woman who eyes a mutual friends husband. What she doesn't know is how abusive and awful he is, IRL. Would serve her right if it came true.

Anonymous wrote:No one in particular but I would pursue lots of sex with different people. Meeting people seems so much easier now with apps that you're not limited to the people you know or see when you're out.

Zero interest in that. The best sex I have is when I’m deeply in love and have trust. Then I let myself go with abandon.

Plus. I’ve yet to meet a man IRL with a body as good as my husband’s—-still at 50.

Anonymous wrote:Do you have someone in mind you'd pursue?

If you are fantasizing about your spouse vanishing and you being free to pursue people you’ve been eye as backups, you need to pursue a psychiatrist because this isn’t healthy.

Anonymous wrote:No. I don’t think I would date again if something happened to my spouse. Dating seems like a nightmare now with the apps. Horror stories.

Same here. God forbid anything ever happened to him I would be devastated. I would focus wholly on our kids.

I have a lot of good friends and those friendships would help sustain me.

A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle. -U2