OP, she's probably projecting her affair on you. DW kept accusing me of being involved with someone when I wasn't and I found it very odd. Turns out she was texting constantly to another man

Anonymous wrote:Between now and when you have her served, try to have all the sex you can with her and be especially demanding of BJs. Might as well get all you can, while you can.

This was obviously written by a man.

Duh!!?

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Anonymous wrote:How long ago was the affair? Is it over?

Affair is over b/c AP’s wife caught them. It’s what I gathered from the he emails and texts I have.

Is she still in contact with him? Or did the emails/texts stop? Did she tell any of her friends?

I would start talking to lawyers and line everything up and have her served. Women are about the exit affair.

I’m going to guarantee this isn’t her first affair. They usually don’t get caught the first time.

I’m so sorry you are going through this. Do you have kids that will be affected, custody, etc?

Good for you OP. She’s trying to make you the bad guy when she’s the cheater.

No

OP, are you still having sex with her?

Anonymous wrote:How long ago was the affair? Is it over?

Affair is over b/c AP’s wife caught them. It’s what I gathered from the he emails and texts I have.

Anonymous wrote:You must absolutely stay silent. Your silence about the affair can be leverage at settlement.

Say what you want after the divorce.

This. Save it and it will be sweeter/beneficial and will make you look even more like a good guy in this (even if you are not).