Anonymous
Post 02/06/2022 00:56     Subject: Personality traits that really push your buttons
During conversations, people who answer questions about themselves, but do not ask questions about you.

People who do not have the ability to laugh at theirselves- too serious.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2022 00:23     Subject: Personality traits that really push your buttons
People who talk about others behind their back
Arrogant
Controlling/bossy
Attention seeking
Complaining/whining
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2022 00:16     Subject: Re:Personality traits that really push your buttons
Anonymous wrote:People who are passive aggressive and attention seeking. And who can’t just be direct. Like the people who post the vague Facebook “things will get better soon…. I just know it. Thanks to my friends for always being there.”


My favorites are the ones who “check in” to the hospital when they’re attending a routine visit at the adjoining doctors’ offices (or visiting someone else in the hospital) with no context so they can get 35 comments saying “OMG HONEY ARE YOU OK???”
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2022 00:15     Subject: Personality traits that really push your buttons
Anonymous wrote:1. People who think their opinion is fact.
2. People who can't be empathic or see something from another perspective.
3. Stupid people (sorry).
4. Immaturity.


So, the vast majority of humans?
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2022 00:14     Subject: Re:Personality traits that really push your buttons
Anonymous wrote:Aggressive, close-the-deal types who use your name repeatedly when speaking to you.


This drives me bonkers.

Back off, jack*ss, I'm not buying it. So phony.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2022 00:12     Subject: Re:Personality traits that really push your buttons
Anonymous wrote:Surprised at people pointing to lack of empathy because in my experience people don’t seem to care that much about it. Or rather, many people take it for granted in others but don’t seem to require it as necessary. I’ve heard people criticized for caring too much, but rarely for caring too little.


+1
Anonymous
Post 02/05/2022 23:57     Subject: Re:Personality traits that really push your buttons
Anonymous wrote:Surprised at people pointing to lack of empathy because in my experience people don’t seem to care that much about it. Or rather, many people take it for granted in others but don’t seem to require it as necessary. I’ve heard people criticized for caring too much, but rarely for caring too little.


No way, empathy is critical.
Anonymous
Post 02/05/2022 23:32     Subject: Re:Personality traits that really push your buttons
Surprised at people pointing to lack of empathy because in my experience people don’t seem to care that much about it. Or rather, many people take it for granted in others but don’t seem to require it as necessary. I’ve heard people criticized for caring too much, but rarely for caring too little.
Anonymous
Post 02/05/2022 23:11     Subject: Personality traits that really push your buttons
Talks on about self and doesn’t ask about others
Victim in need of rescue
Complaining a lot
Rudeness
Dishonesty
Ignorant but opinionated (my favorite)
Disrespectful
No empathy
Anonymous
Post 02/05/2022 23:11     Subject: Re:Personality traits that really push your buttons
In men (for relationship), I cannot take:

Small mindedness
Judgmental
Inflexible
Controlling

In women (for friendship) dealbreakers are

Judgmental about the wrong things
Narcissistic
Boring
Shallow

Anonymous
Post 02/05/2022 23:07     Subject: Personality traits that really push your buttons
Know-it-alls
Flakey, unreliable
Needy
Attention seeking
Anonymous
Post 02/05/2022 23:03     Subject: Personality traits that really push your buttons
People that over talk. Tell long boring stories with no relevance to the audience.
Anonymous
Post 02/05/2022 22:11     Subject: Personality traits that really push your buttons
Negativity
Cheapness
Know-it-all types
Rude
Indecisive
Tardiness
Anonymous
Post 02/05/2022 21:58     Subject: Re:Personality traits that really push your buttons
People who are passive aggressive and attention seeking. And who can’t just be direct. Like the people who post the vague Facebook “things will get better soon…. I just know it. Thanks to my friends for always being there.”
Anonymous
Post 02/05/2022 21:39     Subject: Personality traits that really push your buttons
People who are really vain.