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Anonymous wrote:Well she replied laughing and saying she knows she's a bad chef but tries and suggested we do chinese takeout on Friday.
I'm actually not a horrible person either ....

Yes. You kinda are. I would not be friends with you after a comment like that. My friends don’t talk about each other like that. You’ve shown her your character.

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You’re really biting back at people, but you’re 100% in the wrong here. I have secondhand embarrassment for you and I hope your baking friend finds a friend group that didn’t stop maturing in the 7th grade. Seriously, this is the kind of crap I pulled in the 7th grade. I stopped. You… didn’t.

Anonymous wrote:Well she replied laughing and saying she knows she's a bad chef but tries and suggested we do chinese takeout on Friday.
I'm actually not a horrible person either ....

Chinese takeout?

Yeah I don't text these kinds of things about friends, ever.

Anonymous wrote:Well she replied laughing and saying she knows she's a bad chef but tries and suggested we do chinese takeout on Friday.
I'm actually not a horrible person either ....

Yeah right

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Anonymous wrote:Well she replied laughing and saying she knows she's a bad chef but tries and suggested we do chinese takeout on Friday.
I'm actually not a horrible person either ....

You’re not OP. Sh!t happens. Sounds like she rolled with it.

I’ve been on the receiving end of a text like this. My friend felt terrible. I forgave her. NBD. If you Are otherwise a good friend, she’ll roll with it.

With friends like these…

When I saw the title Faux pass of the century" I thought I was about to read a post by a 16 year old girl. Not an adult.

Anonymous wrote:Well she replied laughing and saying she knows she's a bad chef but tries and suggested we do chinese takeout on Friday.
I'm actually not a horrible person either ....

You’re not OP. Sh!t happens. Sounds like she rolled with it.

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Anonymous wrote:Well she replied laughing and saying she knows she's a bad chef but tries and suggested we do chinese takeout on Friday.
I'm actually not a horrible person either ....

Yes. You kinda are. I would not be friends with you after a comment like that. My friends don’t talk about each other like that. You’ve shown her your character.

You're worked up than the friend

Anonymous wrote:Well she replied laughing and saying she knows she's a bad chef but tries and suggested we do chinese takeout on Friday.
I'm actually not a horrible person either ....

Yes. You kinda are. I would not be friends with you after a comment like that. My friends don’t talk about each other like that. You’ve shown her your character.

Well she replied laughing and saying she knows she's a bad chef but tries and suggested we do chinese takeout on Friday.
I'm actually not a horrible person either ....

Well that was not very nice of you. And now you get caught. I would phone her with an apology.

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Anonymous wrote:That’s not a faux pas. That’s you being really, really mean about someone who took the time to bake for you. I would NEVER talk about my friends like that. And I wouldn’t allow anyone else to do it either. You are toxic.

With respect, most friend groups have silly side jokes about their friends. You seem judgmental about this. I think it's super common.

No. It’s not common. It’s immature, middle school, mean girl behavior. Adults don’t behave like that.

Yes, they do. I have no fashion sense and it's a common joke. Adults definitely tease each other about their foibles.

These are not remotely congruent. Your friend makes things for you as a gift. She spends her time and money on you. And in response, you say mean things. Your fashion sense of lack thereof is purely personal.

I’ll be surprised if your friend replies to you.

Agreed. And you are in on the joke about your own fashion sense, PP. It sounds like you participate.

She didn't know she was a joke to you.

Did you at least apologize? Or did you just leave your dick comment sitting there?

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Anonymous wrote:That’s not a faux pas. That’s you being really, really mean about someone who took the time to bake for you. I would NEVER talk about my friends like that. And I wouldn’t allow anyone else to do it either. You are toxic.

With respect, most friend groups have silly side jokes about their friends. You seem judgmental about this. I think it's super common.

No. It’s not common. It’s immature, middle school, mean girl behavior. Adults don’t behave like that.

Yes, they do. I have no fashion sense and it's a common joke. Adults definitely tease each other about their foibles.

Yes, they may tease their friends to their face but not behind their back. Grow up.

This. I dont talk about my friends behind their backs to other friends.

+1 same here. I don’t do it either.

That’s incredibly mean and immature.