Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:VHC has drastically lowered their c-section rate by basically putting in an after-action reporting mechanism to try to figure out why *unplanned* c-sections are happening. Not “baby is breech we’ve been scheduling a c-section for weeks” but why people who were good candidates for vaginal birth and wanted one were getting c-sections. I would deliver there, because the doctors doing the delivery are aware that “convenience” c-sections are not in the cards, so if you have a c-section there that you didn’t want, you at least know you needed it.
Thank you for this information.
It’s cute you think it’s possible to know if a C section was needed in hindsight. Would love to see the crystal ball you’ve got that plays the alternate reality so we can know for sure.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:VHC has drastically lowered their c-section rate by basically putting in an after-action reporting mechanism to try to figure out why *unplanned* c-sections are happening. Not “baby is breech we’ve been scheduling a c-section for weeks” but why people who were good candidates for vaginal birth and wanted one were getting c-sections. I would deliver there, because the doctors doing the delivery are aware that “convenience” c-sections are not in the cards, so if you have a c-section there that you didn’t want, you at least know you needed it.
Thank you for this information.
It’s cute you think it’s possible to know if a C section was needed in hindsight. Would love to see the crystal ball you’ve got that plays the alternate reality so we can know for sure.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:VHC has drastically lowered their c-section rate by basically putting in an after-action reporting mechanism to try to figure out why *unplanned* c-sections are happening. Not “baby is breech we’ve been scheduling a c-section for weeks” but why people who were good candidates for vaginal birth and wanted one were getting c-sections. I would deliver there, because the doctors doing the delivery are aware that “convenience” c-sections are not in the cards, so if you have a c-section there that you didn’t want, you at least know you needed it.
Thank you for this information.
Anonymous wrote:VHC has drastically lowered their c-section rate by basically putting in an after-action reporting mechanism to try to figure out why *unplanned* c-sections are happening. Not “baby is breech we’ve been scheduling a c-section for weeks” but why people who were good candidates for vaginal birth and wanted one were getting c-sections. I would deliver there, because the doctors doing the delivery are aware that “convenience” c-sections are not in the cards, so if you have a c-section there that you didn’t want, you at least know you needed it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My friend and her DH really felt bullied into a C-section at Sibley on their first birth. They did a home birth on the 2nd baby -- 2 pounds larger and a much happier experience.
Your friend is an irresponsible idiot.
NP and you are truly the idiot. You might wish to check your bias at the door if you want to be a productive contribution to this board and probably society as a whole.
OP- you're better off focusing on a midwife or OB practice that has low c-section rates and low interventions.
Home birth is irresponsible. It’s people’s choice to have one, but the infant mortality rates of home birth in the US and the fact that in an emergent medical situation you will not have access to the full scope of medical care and services you may need (forceps, vacuum, C section, blood in the event of you hemorrhaging, imaging, etc) should be a reason to avoid it. Is an uncomplicated homebirth likely to be a better experience for mom? Sure. But making the quality of your experience in one day the focus of your decision making (rather than the bigger goal of having a healthy child for the rest of your life and your child’s life) is a mistake. You have no idea if your birth will be complicated or not until is is over. And while there are things you can do to stack the deck in your favor to have an uncomplicated birth, at the end of the day it is a huge roll of the dice as all sorts of problems can come up from out of the blue during delivery, which you often cannot anticipate. And that have nothing to do with if you did prenatal yoga, ate well, and exercised.
Also, midwives have low C section rates because they cannot perform them. They also don’t do vacuum or forceps births. This can mean they use more creative techniques to get babies out vaginally, but it can also mean they do crazy things (like purple push for HOURS!) that can damage women and their pelvic floors permanently for the goal of getting the baby out the vagina. Your vagina is going to be with you the rest of your life - if you injure it or your rectum during birth, it is often not easily fixed and can mean incontinence (flatal, urinary, fecal), severe tears, difficult recovery, chronic pain, dissatisfying sex, inability to wear tampons, pelvic organ prolapse, and a bunch of other stuff. Not to say these things don’t sometimes happen with C sections, but with a scheduled C section if you don’t go into labor you will absolutely not risk tearing your vagina or pelvic floor muscles.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I had both my kids with the midwives at GW. During my 2nd labor, the midwife bought me a few extra pushes to get the baby out myself and for that I am thankful. My husband said the OB team was literally in the doorway ready to wheel me to surgery.
My first labor I was the last L&D bed at GW before they started diverting to Sibley. My labor was long and my doula told me frankly “if you had gone to Sibley, that baby would not have come out of your vagina”
Story 1: how lucky you are to give birth in a hospital and to have a medical team ready to help your baby to be born safely. What good fortune to live in a Western country with good medical care and access to obstetricians who can be called upon immediately to ensure your baby is born alive and doesn’t suffer brain damage. Women in developing nations literally die for lack of access to OBs and C sections, and develop fistulas and deliver stillborn babies for lack of this access. Your perspective that somehow the OBs wanted to, what? Rob you of an experience? Avoid your kid having oxygen deprivation and ending up brain damaged or with cerebral palsy is really messed up.
Story 2: That’s total speculation.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I had both my kids with the midwives at GW. During my 2nd labor, the midwife bought me a few extra pushes to get the baby out myself and for that I am thankful. My husband said the OB team was literally in the doorway ready to wheel me to surgery.
My first labor I was the last L&D bed at GW before they started diverting to Sibley. My labor was long and my doula told me frankly “if you had gone to Sibley, that baby would not have come out of your vagina”
Story 1: how lucky you are to give birth in a hospital and to have a medical team ready to help your baby to be born safely. What good fortune to live in a Western country with good medical care and access to obstetricians who can be called upon immediately to ensure your baby is born alive and doesn’t suffer brain damage. Women in developing nations literally die for lack of access to OBs and C sections, and develop fistulas and deliver stillborn babies for lack of this access. Your perspective that somehow the OBs wanted to, what? Rob you of an experience? Avoid your kid having oxygen deprivation and ending up brain damaged or with cerebral palsy is really messed up.
Story 2: That’s total speculation.
Way to weirdly skew this person's experience to suit your own narrative?
PP, I have two toddlers at home and would also be happy to avoid c section recovery if I could do it safely. Glad you were able to do so.[/quote
I’m pointing out the bias and privilege to be able to eschew medical care and to paint a team of dedicated health care hero’s as people about to whisk in and steal an experience from you. It’s a false binary perspective that’s really tone deaf.
Also, c section recovery is not always harder than vaginal. My vaginal recovery took years and I still have painful scar tissue from it and could hardly walk postpartum and had severe incontinence. My c section recovery was a walk in the park by comparison. Stop the black and white thinking.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I had both my kids with the midwives at GW. During my 2nd labor, the midwife bought me a few extra pushes to get the baby out myself and for that I am thankful. My husband said the OB team was literally in the doorway ready to wheel me to surgery.
My first labor I was the last L&D bed at GW before they started diverting to Sibley. My labor was long and my doula told me frankly “if you had gone to Sibley, that baby would not have come out of your vagina”
Story 1: how lucky you are to give birth in a hospital and to have a medical team ready to help your baby to be born safely. What good fortune to live in a Western country with good medical care and access to obstetricians who can be called upon immediately to ensure your baby is born alive and doesn’t suffer brain damage. Women in developing nations literally die for lack of access to OBs and C sections, and develop fistulas and deliver stillborn babies for lack of this access. Your perspective that somehow the OBs wanted to, what? Rob you of an experience? Avoid your kid having oxygen deprivation and ending up brain damaged or with cerebral palsy is really messed up.
Story 2: That’s total speculation.
Anonymous wrote:I had both my kids with the midwives at GW. During my 2nd labor, the midwife bought me a few extra pushes to get the baby out myself and for that I am thankful. My husband said the OB team was literally in the doorway ready to wheel me to surgery.
My first labor I was the last L&D bed at GW before they started diverting to Sibley. My labor was long and my doula told me frankly “if you had gone to Sibley, that baby would not have come out of your vagina”
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Midwives have lower c section rates. I am with a midwife now despite being a VBAC.
This is true because OB GYNs are not trained on uncomplicated births. They are only trained on managing risks- real or perceived. To a hammer everything's a nail. Go with midwives if you want to avoid a c-section.