Not all. I once watched a TV documentary where African men were being interviewed about a girl they had raped. They just kept repeating about how the experience and being caught had impacted on them. When asked how the girl felt the guys looked completely baffled and didn't understand the question.

They were asked three times how the girl would have felt and they openly admitted it didn't matter, didn't think of her, didn't understand what was being asked of them. They openly said women's feelings don't matter.

I guess that's no different to Trump saying you can grab them on the pussie and they don't say anything. It would never occur to him to consider how the female might feel.

So not all men but yes definitely some men have demonstrated openly they don't see women as people.

Do men see men as people?

The male world is hierarchical, competitive, and violent.

No way.

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Anonymous wrote:Sometimes I feel like they don’t.

Some truly do. My DH of 30 years does, thank God. I know some other men who do see women as whole human beings. But here on DCUM? Too many men posting here think women are primarily intended for their sexual gratification, and who consider marriage primarily an arrangement to give men more convenient access to regular sex on demand.

Agree. There are 2 answers: one for men around me and then one for DCUM men. Men around me definitely see women as individuals.

Of course not.

Some do. Perhaps many do. The problem is there is a social sanction that excuses those that don’t instead of finding it completely beyond the pale as other similar views have become.

Anonymous wrote:I see certain DCUM women as very stupid people.

The majority.

I see certain DCUM women as very stupid people.

Never.

This is as stupid as all men are evil threads. Of course men do. What kind of stupid sh*t is that?

Anonymous wrote:In my experience (and based on past centuries) my overall answer is No.

We have a feminist historian here to tell us how misogynist we’ve been since the beginning of time.

If your man doesn’t treat you the way he used to, the problem just might be you.

In my experience (and based on past centuries) my overall answer is No.

Anonymous wrote:My DH does.

+1

If you think men treat women badly you should see how women treat each other.