Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I've been through the entire process and have a scholarship athlete.
1. You are the biggest advocate for your kid. Your 15-17 year old player has no real world experience. Understand your kids talent level and have real conversations with them to identify the approopraite program where they may want to go to school and play. Only YOU and your KID can answer that question.
2. ECNL is the top league for girls. What it shows the college is that you're kid is able to compete at a level that acts as the main player pool for D1 players. It allows colleges to properly evaluate you player.
3. However, ECNL will not get your kid recruited. Your kid will get themselves recruited by contacting the appropriate school and performing well info front of them when the spotlight is on.
4. The college coach will contact your club coach before the reach out you. If your coach doesn't vouch for your kid (behavior issues, etc.) it's over.
In summary - most important thing to do is have an HONEST conversation based on Academic and Athletic talent and then start emailing the coaches. Get on their radar staring 8th and 9th grade.
3.
Thank you! that is helpful. Even in the 8th grade? Are the ID camps at targeted schools worth it?
I ever felt that random ID camps got my kid on anyones radar. - it may be fun to attend for experience - but to get recruited, your player needs to be evaluated multiple times to show their true level.
The only ID camps I thought were meaningful where the ones where the college coaches reached out to our club coach and showed interest. That meant that they saw my kid at a showcase (or highlight video) and liked what they saw. I then used the ID camp as a second opportunity to be seen and evaluated.
Her 8th grade year - I put together a highlight video and emailed it to every college we identified based on her academic and athletic talent level.
Her 9th grade year - I emailed them a new highlight video and showcase schedule
Her 10th grade year - I did the same thing and attend the ID camps of schools interested
Her 11th grade year - Committed
We emailed and showed interest to over 40 schools. We made at least 4 highlight videos
Cast a big net. But first and foremost - Have an HONEST discussion and identify the schools! It has to start there. Then stay in constant contact with updates. You want them to know your kids name.
Good stuff! I''l be using this as a blueprint!
This is not a blueprint, it's very helpful but 100% POV of a parent vs. player. The Juxtaposition between 'her' vs. I is cringy.
Adults using the word "Gringy" is "Gringy" - log off your TicTok account and rejoin the rest of us.
Parents - take a very active role behind the scenes to assist in getting your kid recruited. Do not rely on anyone else.
So at what point in the process did your kid actually do herself? What did she actually learn about composing and sending emails and maintaining communication with coaches?
Will you do this for her jobs too?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I've been through the entire process and have a scholarship athlete.
1. You are the biggest advocate for your kid. Your 15-17 year old player has no real world experience. Understand your kids talent level and have real conversations with them to identify the approopraite program where they may want to go to school and play. Only YOU and your KID can answer that question.
2. ECNL is the top league for girls. What it shows the college is that you're kid is able to compete at a level that acts as the main player pool for D1 players. It allows colleges to properly evaluate you player.
3. However, ECNL will not get your kid recruited. Your kid will get themselves recruited by contacting the appropriate school and performing well info front of them when the spotlight is on.
4. The college coach will contact your club coach before the reach out you. If your coach doesn't vouch for your kid (behavior issues, etc.) it's over.
In summary - most important thing to do is have an HONEST conversation based on Academic and Athletic talent and then start emailing the coaches. Get on their radar staring 8th and 9th grade.
3.
Thank you! that is helpful. Even in the 8th grade? Are the ID camps at targeted schools worth it?
I ever felt that random ID camps got my kid on anyones radar. - it may be fun to attend for experience - but to get recruited, your player needs to be evaluated multiple times to show their true level.
The only ID camps I thought were meaningful where the ones where the college coaches reached out to our club coach and showed interest. That meant that they saw my kid at a showcase (or highlight video) and liked what they saw. I then used the ID camp as a second opportunity to be seen and evaluated.
Her 8th grade year - I put together a highlight video and emailed it to every college we identified based on her academic and athletic talent level.
Her 9th grade year - I emailed them a new highlight video and showcase schedule
Her 10th grade year - I did the same thing and attend the ID camps of schools interested
Her 11th grade year - Committed
We emailed and showed interest to over 40 schools. We made at least 4 highlight videos
Cast a big net. But first and foremost - Have an HONEST discussion and identify the schools! It has to start there. Then stay in constant contact with updates. You want them to know your kids name.
Good stuff! I''l be using this as a blueprint!
This is not a blueprint, it's very helpful but 100% POV of a parent vs. player. The Juxtaposition between 'her' vs. I is cringy.
Adults using the word "Gringy" is "Gringy" - log off your TicTok account and rejoin the rest of us.
Parents - take a very active role behind the scenes to assist in getting your kid recruited. Do not rely on anyone else.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I've been through the entire process and have a scholarship athlete.
1. You are the biggest advocate for your kid. Your 15-17 year old player has no real world experience. Understand your kids talent level and have real conversations with them to identify the approopraite program where they may want to go to school and play. Only YOU and your KID can answer that question.
2. ECNL is the top league for girls. What it shows the college is that you're kid is able to compete at a level that acts as the main player pool for D1 players. It allows colleges to properly evaluate you player.
3. However, ECNL will not get your kid recruited. Your kid will get themselves recruited by contacting the appropriate school and performing well info front of them when the spotlight is on.
4. The college coach will contact your club coach before the reach out you. If your coach doesn't vouch for your kid (behavior issues, etc.) it's over.
In summary - most important thing to do is have an HONEST conversation based on Academic and Athletic talent and then start emailing the coaches. Get on their radar staring 8th and 9th grade.
3.
Thank you! that is helpful. Even in the 8th grade? Are the ID camps at targeted schools worth it?
I ever felt that random ID camps got my kid on anyones radar. - it may be fun to attend for experience - but to get recruited, your player needs to be evaluated multiple times to show their true level.
The only ID camps I thought were meaningful where the ones where the college coaches reached out to our club coach and showed interest. That meant that they saw my kid at a showcase (or highlight video) and liked what they saw. I then used the ID camp as a second opportunity to be seen and evaluated.
Her 8th grade year - I put together a highlight video and emailed it to every college we identified based on her academic and athletic talent level.
Her 9th grade year - I emailed them a new highlight video and showcase schedule
Her 10th grade year - I did the same thing and attend the ID camps of schools interested
Her 11th grade year - Committed
We emailed and showed interest to over 40 schools. We made at least 4 highlight videos
Cast a big net. But first and foremost - Have an HONEST discussion and identify the schools! It has to start there. Then stay in constant contact with updates. You want them to know your kids name.
Good stuff! I''l be using this as a blueprint!
This is not a blueprint, it's very helpful but 100% POV of a parent vs. player. The Juxtaposition between 'her' vs. I is cringy.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I've been through the entire process and have a scholarship athlete.
1. You are the biggest advocate for your kid. Your 15-17 year old player has no real world experience. Understand your kids talent level and have real conversations with them to identify the approopraite program where they may want to go to school and play. Only YOU and your KID can answer that question.
2. ECNL is the top league for girls. What it shows the college is that you're kid is able to compete at a level that acts as the main player pool for D1 players. It allows colleges to properly evaluate you player.
3. However, ECNL will not get your kid recruited. Your kid will get themselves recruited by contacting the appropriate school and performing well info front of them when the spotlight is on.
4. The college coach will contact your club coach before the reach out you. If your coach doesn't vouch for your kid (behavior issues, etc.) it's over.
In summary - most important thing to do is have an HONEST conversation based on Academic and Athletic talent and then start emailing the coaches. Get on their radar staring 8th and 9th grade.
3.
Thank you! that is helpful. Even in the 8th grade? Are the ID camps at targeted schools worth it?
I ever felt that random ID camps got my kid on anyones radar. - it may be fun to attend for experience - but to get recruited, your player needs to be evaluated multiple times to show their true level.
The only ID camps I thought were meaningful where the ones where the college coaches reached out to our club coach and showed interest. That meant that they saw my kid at a showcase (or highlight video) and liked what they saw. I then used the ID camp as a second opportunity to be seen and evaluated.
Her 8th grade year - I put together a highlight video and emailed it to every college we identified based on her academic and athletic talent level.
Her 9th grade year - I emailed them a new highlight video and showcase schedule
Her 10th grade year - I did the same thing and attend the ID camps of schools interested
Her 11th grade year - Committed
We emailed and showed interest to over 40 schools. We made at least 4 highlight videos
Cast a big net. But first and foremost - Have an HONEST discussion and identify the schools! It has to start there. Then stay in constant contact with updates. You want them to know your kids name.
Good stuff! I''l be using this as a blueprint!
This is not a blueprint, it's very helpful but 100% POV of a parent vs. player. The Juxtaposition between 'her' vs. I is cringy.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I've been through the entire process and have a scholarship athlete.
1. You are the biggest advocate for your kid. Your 15-17 year old player has no real world experience. Understand your kids talent level and have real conversations with them to identify the approopraite program where they may want to go to school and play. Only YOU and your KID can answer that question.
2. ECNL is the top league for girls. What it shows the college is that you're kid is able to compete at a level that acts as the main player pool for D1 players. It allows colleges to properly evaluate you player.
3. However, ECNL will not get your kid recruited. Your kid will get themselves recruited by contacting the appropriate school and performing well info front of them when the spotlight is on.
4. The college coach will contact your club coach before the reach out you. If your coach doesn't vouch for your kid (behavior issues, etc.) it's over.
In summary - most important thing to do is have an HONEST conversation based on Academic and Athletic talent and then start emailing the coaches. Get on their radar staring 8th and 9th grade.
3.
Thank you! that is helpful. Even in the 8th grade? Are the ID camps at targeted schools worth it?
I ever felt that random ID camps got my kid on anyones radar. - it may be fun to attend for experience - but to get recruited, your player needs to be evaluated multiple times to show their true level.
The only ID camps I thought were meaningful where the ones where the college coaches reached out to our club coach and showed interest. That meant that they saw my kid at a showcase (or highlight video) and liked what they saw. I then used the ID camp as a second opportunity to be seen and evaluated.
Her 8th grade year - I put together a highlight video and emailed it to every college we identified based on her academic and athletic talent level.
Her 9th grade year - I emailed them a new highlight video and showcase schedule
Her 10th grade year - I did the same thing and attend the ID camps of schools interested
Her 11th grade year - Committed
We emailed and showed interest to over 40 schools. We made at least 4 highlight videos
Cast a big net. But first and foremost - Have an HONEST discussion and identify the schools! It has to start there. Then stay in constant contact with updates. You want them to know your kids name.
Good stuff! I''l be using this as a blueprint!
This is not a blueprint, it's very helpful but 100% POV of a parent vs. player. The Juxtaposition between 'her' vs. I is cringy.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I've been through the entire process and have a scholarship athlete.
1. You are the biggest advocate for your kid. Your 15-17 year old player has no real world experience. Understand your kids talent level and have real conversations with them to identify the approopraite program where they may want to go to school and play. Only YOU and your KID can answer that question.
2. ECNL is the top league for girls. What it shows the college is that you're kid is able to compete at a level that acts as the main player pool for D1 players. It allows colleges to properly evaluate you player.
3. However, ECNL will not get your kid recruited. Your kid will get themselves recruited by contacting the appropriate school and performing well info front of them when the spotlight is on.
4. The college coach will contact your club coach before the reach out you. If your coach doesn't vouch for your kid (behavior issues, etc.) it's over.
In summary - most important thing to do is have an HONEST conversation based on Academic and Athletic talent and then start emailing the coaches. Get on their radar staring 8th and 9th grade.
3.
Thank you! that is helpful. Even in the 8th grade? Are the ID camps at targeted schools worth it?
I ever felt that random ID camps got my kid on anyones radar. - it may be fun to attend for experience - but to get recruited, your player needs to be evaluated multiple times to show their true level.
The only ID camps I thought were meaningful where the ones where the college coaches reached out to our club coach and showed interest. That meant that they saw my kid at a showcase (or highlight video) and liked what they saw. I then used the ID camp as a second opportunity to be seen and evaluated.
Her 8th grade year - I put together a highlight video and emailed it to every college we identified based on her academic and athletic talent level.
Her 9th grade year - I emailed them a new highlight video and showcase schedule
Her 10th grade year - I did the same thing and attend the ID camps of schools interested
Her 11th grade year - Committed
We emailed and showed interest to over 40 schools. We made at least 4 highlight videos
Cast a big net. But first and foremost - Have an HONEST discussion and identify the schools! It has to start there. Then stay in constant contact with updates. You want them to know your kids name.
Good stuff! I''l be using this as a blueprint!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Well -- my kid was actually recruited from her high school play. She was playing club of course, but where we were girls high school played in the Spring so coaches had time to go to high school games. When the coach from her college came to a game I figured that it was not going to work, because he left about 10 minutes into the game. Turns out he liked the way she ran the warm ups as the high school coach worked and could not get to most games until just before the start. Basically the coach knew the level of play, and really recruited "leadership".
Most certainly not D1
MAC
Oh. You just wanted to be insulting. Got it. There’s a name for people like you and it refers to a part of a person’s rear end.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A league presents a platform for recruiting. At the high end, ECNL is big enough and draws enough talent to virtually guarantee that you will be seen by college coaches, assuming your player is proactive in making contact in advance to show interest. Since ECNL draws so many coaches, you may also get speculative looks from coaches looking at other players and noticing yours. Lower level leagues offer fewer built in showcases and less natural draw so your player will have to work harder to get those looks.
The team can really impact your recruiting. Any player will perform better when surrounded by players of similar or higher capability. You can't show your stuff if they can't get the ball to you reliably. The more competitive your team is, the easier it is for a coach to evaluate you critically. This is why HS isn't a great recruiting venue for soccer. The speed of play is too slow, and the skill level too varied to present a reliable challenge. If your team is in a travel league where the pace of play is slower, your player may stand out more, but coaches will be less able to evaluate his/her ability to make quick decisions under pressure.
LOL no. Experience soccer people can ID quality players very quickly even when playing with less skilled players. Speed of play is a combination of technical skill and soccer iq/vision. It is very easy to determine who has the speed of play to play at the next level.
Bollocks. College coaches have told us flat out that they need to see games against like competition. Speed of play can only be demonstrated when challenged. That's one of the reasons why HS soccer is not good for recruiting.
Not true. If it was true college coach would get nothing from watching travel soccer games because the overall speed of play is slow…much slower vs college and loads slower vs the pros. Speed of play is easy to see even against lower competition. It’s a combination of technical skills, touch, vision, weight, pace and soccer iq. Can you receive and pass the ball with one or two touch under pressure? Does the player release the ball within 2 second or less after receiving? Do the passes continue possession or lead to turn overs? That is speed of play.
Now athleticism and how fast a player is can be hard to determine against lower competition. A player who has above speed or athleticism against lower competition can seem pretty good but against like competition will disappear. Though if you are in a top league even the lower table teams have decent speed and athleticism. Enough to get a feel for the players. That is not the case in a high school league.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Well -- my kid was actually recruited from her high school play. She was playing club of course, but where we were girls high school played in the Spring so coaches had time to go to high school games. When the coach from her college came to a game I figured that it was not going to work, because he left about 10 minutes into the game. Turns out he liked the way she ran the warm ups as the high school coach worked and could not get to most games until just before the start. Basically the coach knew the level of play, and really recruited "leadership".
Most certainly not D1
Anonymous wrote:Well -- my kid was actually recruited from her high school play. She was playing club of course, but where we were girls high school played in the Spring so coaches had time to go to high school games. When the coach from her college came to a game I figured that it was not going to work, because he left about 10 minutes into the game. Turns out he liked the way she ran the warm ups as the high school coach worked and could not get to most games until just before the start. Basically the coach knew the level of play, and really recruited "leadership".
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A league presents a platform for recruiting. At the high end, ECNL is big enough and draws enough talent to virtually guarantee that you will be seen by college coaches, assuming your player is proactive in making contact in advance to show interest. Since ECNL draws so many coaches, you may also get speculative looks from coaches looking at other players and noticing yours. Lower level leagues offer fewer built in showcases and less natural draw so your player will have to work harder to get those looks.
The team can really impact your recruiting. Any player will perform better when surrounded by players of similar or higher capability. You can't show your stuff if they can't get the ball to you reliably. The more competitive your team is, the easier it is for a coach to evaluate you critically. This is why HS isn't a great recruiting venue for soccer. The speed of play is too slow, and the skill level too varied to present a reliable challenge. If your team is in a travel league where the pace of play is slower, your player may stand out more, but coaches will be less able to evaluate his/her ability to make quick decisions under pressure.[/quote]
LOL no. Experience soccer people can ID quality players very quickly even when playing with less skilled players. Speed of play is a combination of technical skill and soccer iq/vision. It is very easy to determine who has the speed of play to play at the next level.
Bollocks. College coaches have told us flat out that they need to see games against like competition. Speed of play can only be demonstrated when challenged. That's one of the reasons why HS soccer is not good for recruiting.
Not true. If it was true college coach would get nothing from watching travel soccer games because the overall speed of play is slow…much slower vs college and loads slower vs the pros. Speed of play is easy to see even against lower competition. It’s a combination of technical skills, touch, vision, weight, pace and soccer iq. Can you receive and pass the ball with one or two touch under pressure? Does the player release the ball within 2 second or less after receiving? Do the passes continue possession or lead to turn overs? That is speed of play.
Now athleticism and how fast a player is can be hard to determine against lower competition. A player who has above speed or athleticism against lower competition can seem pretty good but against like competition will disappear. Though if you are in a top league even the lower table teams have decent speed and athleticism. Enough to get a feel for the players. That is not the case in a high school league.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A league presents a platform for recruiting. At the high end, ECNL is big enough and draws enough talent to virtually guarantee that you will be seen by college coaches, assuming your player is proactive in making contact in advance to show interest. Since ECNL draws so many coaches, you may also get speculative looks from coaches looking at other players and noticing yours. Lower level leagues offer fewer built in showcases and less natural draw so your player will have to work harder to get those looks.
The team can really impact your recruiting. Any player will perform better when surrounded by players of similar or higher capability. You can't show your stuff if they can't get the ball to you reliably. The more competitive your team is, the easier it is for a coach to evaluate you critically. This is why HS isn't a great recruiting venue for soccer. The speed of play is too slow, and the skill level too varied to present a reliable challenge. If your team is in a travel league where the pace of play is slower, your player may stand out more, but coaches will be less able to evaluate his/her ability to make quick decisions under pressure.[/quote]
LOL no. Experience soccer people can ID quality players very quickly even when playing with less skilled players. Speed of play is a combination of technical skill and soccer iq/vision. It is very easy to determine who has the speed of play to play at the next level.
Bollocks. College coaches have told us flat out that they need to see games against like competition. Speed of play can only be demonstrated when challenged. That's one of the reasons why HS soccer is not good for recruiting.