My child played NextGen in the Fall and found some of the above to be true. While some clubs put their top teams in NCSL and bottom teams in CCL, some clubs are ONLY in CCL. That meant our team (the bottom team) played against top teams of other clubs and got crushed. At tournaments, we played against NCSL bottom tier teams and suddenly had competitive games.
So I would say that there are good teams in both leagues but I'm advocating for our team moving to NCSL since we might have some good & competitive games.
Regarding driving time, max was about 45 minutes from NoVA.