Another we did until we didn't. Her life evolved and she became very focused only on her own needs acting like she was doing us a HUGE favor caring for our kids as opposed to it was her job and she was well compensated for it. I get she's of course entitled to her own needs, but there was no professionalism, communication, or concern for the binds she put us in and a lot of passive-aggressiveness if I pushed back at all.