Anonymous wrote:You don’t love people because they’re beautiful, they are beautiful because you love them.

+1 I'm 55 and while I'm definitely hotter when I'm thinner (over the last 6 months I put on my "winter coat" I guess), my DH still is crazy about me, I can see it in his eyes. Objectively if I were on the singles market I doubt anyone would be interested. OP, unless you are married to a reall a$$, it's about the connection and the relationship.

My DH is pretty handsome (a couple of years younger than me), smart, nice, and high up there in the success/accomplishment category, so I think if I dropped dead, women would be eyeing him at my funeral. But I know him and love him and he appreciates that.

We are 54. Married for 33 years. My DH cannot keep his hands off of me....still. He tells me I am beautiful all the time. He is either really sweet, or blinded by love. I am in great shape. I take good care of myself. But I am not 35 anymore. I have the wrinkles and gray hair, plus the effects of gravity to prove it.

On the flip side, I think he has gotten sexier with age. It's not fair.

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Married more than thirty years and wife is almost 60. Still totally into her. So fear not, you've got many good years ahead. A woman in her 30s has a different kind of attractiveness and appeal than in 20s, and same is true of 40s and 50s and 60s.

It helps that she take reasonably good care of herself and has not put on weight, but she has never been obsessive about weight, exercise, makeup or fashion.

I also totally agree with the comment above that being fun and adventurous in bed is a MAJOR PLUS. That doesn't have to go down as you age; it is possible to get more adventurous and open-minded.

Are you younger than her?

No, couple years older

Anonymous wrote:I did but my former wife left me for her AP. Now I sleep with younger women only (20s for now, will move to 30s when I have to) and will never remarry.

Never say never!

Anonymous wrote:My mom is obese, doesn't color her hair or wear makeup, and dresses poorly. My dad loves how she looks, tells everyone how lucky he is to be married to a beautiful woman, and tells her she looks pretty every day of her life. So, yes.

So sweet!

I did but my former wife left me for her AP. Now I sleep with younger women only (20s for now, will move to 30s when I have to) and will never remarry.

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Anonymous wrote:The key is to stay slightly better-looking than your man. Deteriorate together.

LOL now I can live life

Couldn’t have said it better myself.

Anonymous wrote:
Married more than thirty years and wife is almost 60. Still totally into her. So fear not, you've got many good years ahead. A woman in her 30s has a different kind of attractiveness and appeal than in 20s, and same is true of 40s and 50s and 60s.

It helps that she take reasonably good care of herself and has not put on weight, but she has never been obsessive about weight, exercise, makeup or fashion.

I also totally agree with the comment above that being fun and adventurous in bed is a MAJOR PLUS. That doesn't have to go down as you age; it is possible to get more adventurous and open-minded.

Are you younger than her?

Anonymous wrote:You don’t love people because they’re beautiful, they are beautiful because you love them.

Well said.

Anonymous wrote:My mom is obese, doesn't color her hair or wear makeup, and dresses poorly. My dad loves how she looks, tells everyone how lucky he is to be married to a beautiful woman, and tells her she looks pretty every day of her life. So, yes.

You sound envious. No positive qualities you care to mention, I see.

Married more than thirty years and wife is almost 60. Still totally into her. So fear not, you've got many good years ahead. A woman in her 30s has a different kind of attractiveness and appeal than in 20s, and same is true of 40s and 50s and 60s.

It helps that she take reasonably good care of herself and has not put on weight, but she has never been obsessive about weight, exercise, makeup or fashion.

I also totally agree with the comment above that being fun and adventurous in bed is a MAJOR PLUS. That doesn't have to go down as you age; it is possible to get more adventurous and open-minded.

Wife still hot at 49.. her mother is a head turner at 70+ Her friends that are the same age?? Nope

I'm starting to think these posts are fake. Why doesn't anyone ask if women find their husbands attractive? Feels like dysfunctional social norming.

You don’t love people because they’re beautiful, they are beautiful because you love them.

Honestly, you will do way, way more to keep your DHs attention at home if you are fun and good in bed. No point in having a sports car with no engine.