Anonymous wrote:https://www.stories.com/en_usd/clothing/dresses/midi-dresses/product.buttoned-velvet-midi-dress-black.1036712001.html

Maybe something like this?

wow this is so much better than the $99 Anne Klein polyester dress I bought for a barn wedding.

I am not a snob on these things, but I don't consider that appropriate for anywhere outside the house and only inside the house wih people who are your family

Anonymous wrote:https://www.stories.com/en_usd/clothing/dresses/midi-dresses/product.buttoned-velvet-midi-dress-black.1036712001.html

Maybe something like this?

THIS looks great, OP. Did you see it? Out of all the suggestions this one looks most appropriate for a barn wedding & reception, tights and boots.

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Anonymous wrote:These? Not sure what your size/price point is.

https://www.nordstrom.com/s/harper-rose-pleated-keyhole-long-sleeve-fit-flare-dress/6494488?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FWomen%2FClothing%2FDresses%2FCocktail%20%26%20Party&color=410

https://www.trinaturk.com/products/yokan-2-dress-1?variant=32914043732029

https://www.trinaturk.com/collections/longsleeve-dresses/products/concoction-dress?variant=39436894208061

Also nice pics, especially the top one!

Ooh. I love the last one. Different and not “the usual” but still elegant

Yes you can wear dress pants and a nice top, especially since it’s outdoors and it’s going to be cold this weekend.

Anonymous wrote:These? Not sure what your size/price point is.

https://www.nordstrom.com/s/harper-rose-pleated-keyhole-long-sleeve-fit-flare-dress/6494488?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FWomen%2FClothing%2FDresses%2FCocktail%20%26%20Party&color=410

https://www.trinaturk.com/products/yokan-2-dress-1?variant=32914043732029

https://www.trinaturk.com/collections/longsleeve-dresses/products/concoction-dress?variant=39436894208061

Also nice pics, especially the top one!

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:it looks like a nightgown.

Jinx

YEP. People will think you are wearing your Land's End nightgown.

I already said I'm not wearing it. No need to pile on with the rude comments.

Something like this maybe? What is your budget?

https://www.nordstrom.com/s/fraiche-by-j-anna-burnout-velvet-wrap-dress/6553568?color=BLACK&mrkgadid=3313964969&mrkgcl=760&mrkgen=gpla&mrkgbflag=0&mrkgcat=&utm_content=9382602593&utm_term=aud-944257668433:pla-489690539020&utm_channel=low_nd_shopping_standard&sp_source=google&sp_campaign=645528200&adpos=&creative=57181589273&device=m&matchtype=&network=g&acctid=21700000001689570&dskeywordid=92700049880249154&lid=92700049880249154&ds_s_kwgid=58700005468290334&ds_s_inventory_feed_id=97700000007631122&dsproductgroupid=489690539020&product_id=39274108&merchid=1243147&prodctry=US&prodlang=en&channel=online&storeid=&locationid=9052970&targetid=aud-944257668433:pla-489690539020&campaignid=645528200&adgroupid=9382602593&gclid=CjwKCAiAp8iMBhAqEiwAJb94z8ysIbJBN6BY-gM2MUHoycreAfx8Y2CQOjqmecFgY-0Kea10Ak1SLBoC2N8QAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds

Love this one!

Anonymous wrote:With black tights and booties or knee high boots? The gold thread has a shimmer to it.

The wedding is at a winery and the ceremony is outdoor and the reception is both indoor and outdoor. It’s going to be cold so I will also be wearing a coat for parts of it.

WDYT? I have several LBD’s I could wear but looking to branch out a little and hopefully stay warmer.

TIA.

https://www.loft.com/shimmer-plaid-tiered-pocket-dress/573588

It's cute, but I wouldn't wear it to a wedding. Would it work for your workplace? I'd wear it to work or to church.

https://www.stories.com/en_usd/clothing/dresses/midi-dresses/product.buttoned-velvet-midi-dress-black.1036712001.html

Maybe something like this?

We just came back from an all outdoor rustic wedding with temps in the 50s. I'd say almost anything goes -- in between your two examples of too casual and LBD. Dressy top and pants are fine because you'll need your coat. I was surprised/impressed that many of the women upped their coat game (wraps/ponchos, cool & colorful, fuzzy, furry, etc). Guys pretty much stuck with blazers or puffer jackets.

Very strong jammy vibes. It's the loose fit AND the neckline AND the elastic cuffs AND the red plaid.

I have been eyeing this dress but don't have anything to wear it to currently. You should get it! It would look fantastic for a winery wedding with a cocktail hour, it's seasonally appropriate, would pair great with a pair of boots and maybe a leather jacket or a structured blazer (maybe in camel?). Plus it looks comfy and it's velvet so it would be cozy too. And not an LBD.

https://www.anthropologie.com/shop/let-me-be-embroidered-velvet-midi-dress

I like this one for an indoor outdoor winery wedding that isn’t black tie

https://www.broraonline.com/us/silk-velvet-print-dress-claret-sapphire-dd9057fl9011?gclid=CjwKCAiAp8iMBhAqEiwAJb94z_Ys0TpjV30bnyUg2u4dA740c2znG2ipf6RRR5bicrNlT6Bxzrij1hoCzoMQAvD_BwE#142=870

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:it looks like a nightgown.

Jinx

YEP. People will think you are wearing your Land's End nightgown.

I already said I'm not wearing it. No need to pile on with the rude comments.

Something like this maybe? What is your budget?

https://www.nordstrom.com/s/fraiche-by-j-anna-burnout-velvet-wrap-dress/6553568?color=BLACK&mrkgadid=3313964969&mrkgcl=760&mrkgen=gpla&mrkgbflag=0&mrkgcat=&utm_content=9382602593&utm_term=aud-944257668433:pla-489690539020&utm_channel=low_nd_shopping_standard&sp_source=google&sp_campaign=645528200&adpos=&creative=57181589273&device=m&matchtype=&network=g&acctid=21700000001689570&dskeywordid=92700049880249154&lid=92700049880249154&ds_s_kwgid=58700005468290334&ds_s_inventory_feed_id=97700000007631122&dsproductgroupid=489690539020&product_id=39274108&merchid=1243147&prodctry=US&prodlang=en&channel=online&storeid=&locationid=9052970&targetid=aud-944257668433:pla-489690539020&campaignid=645528200&adgroupid=9382602593&gclid=CjwKCAiAp8iMBhAqEiwAJb94z8ysIbJBN6BY-gM2MUHoycreAfx8Y2CQOjqmecFgY-0Kea10Ak1SLBoC2N8QAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:it looks like a nightgown.

Jinx

YEP. People will think you are wearing your Land's End nightgown.

I already said I'm not wearing it. No need to pile on with the rude comments.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:it looks like a nightgown.

Jinx

YEP. People will think you are wearing your Land's End nightgown.