Anonymous
11/12/2021 23:06
Subject: Re:I put men I date through a Lab test.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My test (I'm a straight woman) was the check test.
Go out to dinner. When the bill comes, insist on paying half as it's important to me to pay my own way.
Good ones say "are you sure?" and then are fine with it.
Guys lost in the depths of their own toxic masculinity loose their shit. I've actually had to physically wrestle a check away from a guy once. Just to pay for my own food! Hard pass.
Back in the day when car door locks were manual, I'd unlock the passenger door first (for her) and then watch to see if she would reach over and unlock my (driver's side) door. ...Good test on character, consideration, attention to detail, etc.
That’s from Bronx Tale
Anonymous
11/12/2021 23:00
Subject: Re:I put men I date through a Lab test.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My test (I'm a straight woman) was the check test.
Go out to dinner. When the bill comes, insist on paying half as it's important to me to pay my own way.
Good ones say "are you sure?" and then are fine with it.
Guys lost in the depths of their own toxic masculinity loose their shit. I've actually had to physically wrestle a check away from a guy once. Just to pay for my own food! Hard pass.
Back in the day when car door locks were manual, I'd unlock the passenger door first (for her) and then watch to see if she would reach over and unlock my (driver's side) door. ...Good test on character, consideration, attention to detail, etc.
Aww this seems a little unfair to me! No guy has ever opened a car door for me, so the whole situation would be so surreal I'm not sure I'd have the presence of mind to unlock yours!
Anonymous
11/12/2021 17:28
Subject: Re:I put men I date through a Lab test.
Anonymous wrote:Take her camping on a rainy weekend. If she's well-behaved under that duress, she might be a keeper.
As much as I love camping, I wouldn’t last long if it was below 50. I have a broken hypothalamus and can’t keep myself warm when it’s cold. You wouldn’t see an inch of skin the whole time.
Anonymous
11/12/2021 17:17
Subject: I put men I date through a Lab test.
I fart in front of him and if he laughs, he’s a keeper.
Anonymous
11/12/2021 16:23
Subject: I put men I date through a Lab test.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:When I was 19, my best friend and I would test the guys we dated by having the other hit on them and see if they took the bait.
You'd be surprised how many of your friends actually slept with the guy and didn't say a word to you.
-source, a guy who was tested and banged a whole bunch of bffs.
only works if you know how to use your gifts and make it worth it for the "friend"/bff. ask me how I know.
and PP sounds like he knows too.
Anonymous
11/12/2021 15:59
Subject: Re:I put men I date through a Lab test.
Anonymous wrote:My test (I'm a straight woman) was the check test.
Go out to dinner. When the bill comes, insist on paying half as it's important to me to pay my own way.
Good ones say "are you sure?" and then are fine with it.
Guys lost in the depths of their own toxic masculinity loose their shit. I've actually had to physically wrestle a check away from a guy once. Just to pay for my own food! Hard pass.
That’s funny because that was my test with reverse. Those that insisted I paid, I said next too. Those that paid were given a second chance.
Anonymous
11/12/2021 15:39
Subject: Re:I put men I date through a Lab test.
Take her camping on a rainy weekend. If she's well-behaved under that duress, she might be a keeper.
Anonymous
11/12/2021 14:23
Subject: Re:I put men I date through a Lab test.
Anonymous wrote:My test (I'm a straight woman) was the check test.
Go out to dinner. When the bill comes, insist on paying half as it's important to me to pay my own way.
Good ones say "are you sure?" and then are fine with it.
Guys lost in the depths of their own toxic masculinity loose their shit. I've actually had to physically wrestle a check away from a guy once. Just to pay for my own food! Hard pass.
Back in the day when car door locks were manual, I'd unlock the passenger door first (for her) and then watch to see if she would reach over and unlock my (driver's side) door. ...Good test on character, consideration, attention to detail, etc.
Anonymous
11/12/2021 12:50
Subject: I put men I date through a Lab test.
Anonymous wrote:The test is that I have to enjoy going out with them more than I enjoy staying home and watching Netflix with my chocolate Lab.
My dating test was the National Air and Space Museum. If I could take her there and she could tolerate my nerdy space cadet tendencies, then there was hope for a relationship. If she got bored and anxious to leave after 20 minutes, then it was 'game over" and on to the next one.
Anonymous
11/12/2021 12:38
Subject: I put men I date through a Lab test.
I mean I pretty much always want to stay home with the pup🤣 whatever works for you
Anonymous
11/12/2021 12:35
Subject: I put men I date through a Lab test.
Anonymous wrote:Way to steal from TikTok memes, OP.
New poster, I didn’t realize it was a TickTock meme; but I did realize that OP was trying to make a joke.
This to me would be a troll post, because it Initiatedso much conversation and backlash and criticism; and all she want it was an “LOL”
Anonymous
11/12/2021 12:12
Subject: I put men I date through a Lab test.
Way to steal from TikTok memes, OP.
Anonymous
11/12/2021 11:46
Subject: I put men I date through a Lab test.
Anonymous wrote:My test was seeing whether we still wanted to be around each other after a 14 hour drive.
Harsh test. Tough to pass.
Anonymous
11/12/2021 11:45
Subject: I put men I date through a Lab test.
PP who talked about splitting the bill. My test was to see if the guy would at least make the attempt to pay (even though I'd try to split it ultimately). If he wanted to split the bill right off the bat, I didn't like that because I assumed he was cheap if he didn't offer to pay. Not sure what's better.
Anonymous
11/12/2021 11:44
Subject: I put men I date through a Lab test.
Go to Ikea together. If you come out still speaking, book the wedding venue.