Anonymous
11/14/2021 10:55
Subject: College Kid’s Significant Other
Will you respect the SO’s pronouns?
Anonymous
11/13/2021 08:07
Subject: College Kid’s Significant Other
I'd run away from a guy in college whose parents insisted on being that up in his life away from home. Cut the apron strings. He'll bring home his bride when he finds her.
Anonymous
11/13/2021 08:06
Subject: College Kid’s Significant Other
Anonymous wrote:Wait, your child is LIVING with someone and you haven’t met? Are you financing this love nest? We need some details, OP.
College kids usually have housemates; sometimes they date.
Anonymous
11/13/2021 08:02
Subject: College Kid’s Significant Other
Wait, your child is LIVING with someone and you haven’t met? Are you financing this love nest? We need some details, OP.
Anonymous
11/13/2021 06:19
Subject: Re:College Kid’s Significant Other
Being brought into a home with obviously overbearing family to get gawked at and questioned to death is a big no for most kids this age. Awkward to say the least. Have they just been together since the start of this school year? If so, they are still sorting things out themselves.
Anonymous
11/13/2021 00:53
Subject: College Kid’s Significant Other
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If you want to get to know them, go up to school and take them both out for dinner.
I like this idea OP.
No!. This is not for you to determine, OP. This is for your son or daughter to handle. If they want and meed for you to meet their SO , you will. Until that happens step all the way back, this is part of them leaving the nest.
Anonymous
11/12/2021 23:06
Subject: College Kid’s Significant Other
Anonymous wrote:If you want to get to know them, go up to school and take them both out for dinner.
I like this idea OP.
Anonymous
11/12/2021 21:27
Subject: Re:College Kid’s Significant Other
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kids bring home everyone they are dating it seems. Sometimes I kinda wish I had that problem.
Means they trust you, and you get the inside scoop
Or they're free-loaders, late-bloomers, failed-to-launch types.
Anonymous
11/12/2021 21:17
Subject: College Kid’s Significant Other
Have you asked your own kid directly why they haven't brought significant other home for a visit?
Anonymous
11/12/2021 21:03
Subject: Re:College Kid’s Significant Other
Anonymous wrote:My kids bring home everyone they are dating it seems. Sometimes I kinda wish I had that problem.
Means they trust you, and you get the inside scoop
Anonymous
11/12/2021 21:01
Subject: College Kid’s Significant Other
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Just random weekend to get to know the person their kid has gotten so involved with.
They don’t care to be inspected in your home. If you want to get to know them, go up to school and take them both out for dinner.
+1 You're being awkward, OP.
Anonymous
11/12/2021 09:08
Subject: Re:College Kid’s Significant Other
My kids bring home everyone they are dating it seems. Sometimes I kinda wish I had that problem.
Anonymous
11/12/2021 09:05
Subject: College Kid’s Significant Other
Anonymous wrote:Just random weekend to get to know the person their kid has gotten so involved with.
They don’t care to be inspected in your home. If you want to get to know them, go up to school and take them both out for dinner.
Anonymous
11/12/2021 08:59
Subject: Re:College Kid’s Significant Other
You never know what’s the reason so better not to speculate or stress.
Anonymous
11/11/2021 21:00
Subject: College Kid’s Significant Other
Maybe your kid doesn’t really want th to visit - they know you’ll disapprove or worse - be over bearing