Anonymous
11/08/2021 12:43
Subject: Re:Wife’s attempts to climb the social ladder and create a hierarchy are super concerning
Man here. My wife has become a little like this over the years though not quite as bad. It’s a turn off but she has other issues so can’t say I’m totally surprised.
Anonymous
11/08/2021 00:07
Subject: Re:Wife’s attempts to climb the social ladder and create a hierarchy are super concerning
I know a woman who changed like this with a move to a new upscale neighborhood. It’s really very sad. She used to be a good person.
Anonymous
11/07/2021 23:47
Subject: Wife’s attempts to climb the social ladder and create a hierarchy are super concerning
Anonymous wrote:
If I hadn’t lived through this as a child, I might not believe you, because all the people I surround myself with today don’t act like this.
But yes, emotionally-stunted, damaged adults like this do exist. They are deeply insecure with an external locus: they need to bring others down to feel good about themselves.
The good news is: if you actively fight against that mindset, your kids will come out of it untainted.
Agree that people like this do exist.
Anonymous
11/07/2021 23:25
Subject: Wife’s attempts to climb the social ladder and create a hierarchy are super concerning
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Amazing a guy would notice this at all.
He didn’t. OP is a troll. The thread title alone, please.
Just too long and too many BS superlatives for a straight man to write. BS alert!
Or, OP is secretly gay and that's going to add a lot of sizzle to this scenario real quick!
Anonymous
11/07/2021 23:06
Subject: Wife’s attempts to climb the social ladder and create a hierarchy are super concerning
If I hadn’t lived through this as a child, I might not believe you, because all the people I surround myself with today don’t act like this.
But yes, emotionally-stunted, damaged adults like this do exist. They are deeply insecure with an external locus: they need to bring others down to feel good about themselves.
The good news is: if you actively fight against that mindset, your kids will come out of it untainted.
Anonymous
11/07/2021 23:06
Subject: Wife’s attempts to climb the social ladder and create a hierarchy are super concerning
Anonymous wrote:I'm really concerned why youre eavesdropping and so concerned about some stupid, throwaway conversation she had with a friend where she mentioned she didnt want to invite certain people.
Seems to me you're being nitpicky and fairly catty, trying to create a mean narrative about your wife rather than being loving and supportive.
Are you mad because you are unable to make enough money where your wife feels comfortable and secure? And now youre projecting that on her cause you cant measure up?
OP's wife has entered the chat...
Anonymous
11/07/2021 23:01
Subject: Re:Wife’s attempts to climb the social ladder and create a hierarchy are super concerning
This is a micro aggressive post towards stay at home moms who are really just attempting to get the laundry done while breastfeeding and helping the toddler learn the abc’s and push them on the swing.
Anonymous
11/07/2021 22:06
Subject: Re:Wife’s attempts to climb the social ladder and create a hierarchy are super concerning
If not a troll post... she's highly insecure.
Anonymous
11/07/2021 20:33
Subject: Wife’s attempts to climb the social ladder and create a hierarchy are super concerning
Anonymous wrote:I think this is true in wealthy areas but also way worse amongst SAHMs who arent regularly exposed to the wider world and community.
Lol what?! This is the most ignorant comment I’ve heard in a while.
Anonymous
11/07/2021 20:04
Subject: Wife’s attempts to climb the social ladder and create a hierarchy are super concerning
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Amazing a guy would notice this at all.
He didn’t. OP is a troll. The thread title alone, please.
Just too long and too many BS superlatives for a straight man to write. BS alert!
Anonymous
11/07/2021 20:03
Subject: Re:Wife’s attempts to climb the social ladder and create a hierarchy are super concerning
Anonymous wrote:This is a SIL looking for our comments so she can forward to her brother about his wife.
+1 crowdsourcing FAIL!
Anonymous
11/07/2021 20:02
Subject: Wife’s attempts to climb the social ladder and create a hierarchy are super concerning
Anonymous wrote:Amazing a guy would notice this at all.
Trollin’ on my bestie
Anonymous
11/07/2021 19:50
Subject: Wife’s attempts to climb the social ladder and create a hierarchy are super concerning
Newsflash. Yes, these people exist. Smile and nod and be cordial, and laugh a lot at all these folks trying to one up each other and form some sort of exclusive club.
Teach your kids not to be this petty. Teach your kids that adults whom behave like this are not great people. Teach your kids that on the inside these adults are hurting and to be kind. Teach your kids to forge genuine human connections with others.
It’s really simple. Always be inclusive and kind towards others.
Teach your kids not to be this petty. Teach your kids that adults whom behave like this are not great people. Teach your kids that on the inside these adults are hurting and to be kind. Teach your kids to forge genuine human connections with others.
It’s really simple. Always be inclusive and kind towards others.
Anonymous
11/07/2021 17:36
Subject: Wife’s attempts to climb the social ladder and create a hierarchy are super concerning
She sounds like a racist.
Anonymous
11/07/2021 16:32
Subject: Re:Wife’s attempts to climb the social ladder and create a hierarchy are super concerning
This is a SIL looking for our comments so she can forward to her brother about his wife.