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Anonymous wrote:I was friends with a 20–something gorgeous nanny. She ended up engaged to a guy in finance a couple years older than her and very attractive. Their HHI is in the 7 figures and she’s no longer nearby so we’ve drifted apart. I still think of her and smile whenever I see posts on here about people worried the nanny is going to seduce their middle aged husbands. No offense, but especially if she’s attractive, she has her sights set much higher.

Unless she's mentally ill or likes yours husband

Or maybe she is easy? It's highly doubtful that a hot nanny will hook up with a young guy making big bucks.

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Anonymous wrote:They don’t need to be gorgeous. Remember Schwarzenegger?

Gwen stefanis husband and reese witherspoon husband also cheated with nannies. So did Ethan Hawke. He cheated on uma with their nanny.

And Jude Law / Sienna Miller. She us gorgeous! Often cheating has nothing ti fo with looks.

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Anonymous wrote:They don’t need to be gorgeous. Remember Schwarzenegger?

Gwen stefanis husband and reese witherspoon husband also cheated with nannies. So did Ethan Hawke. He cheated on uma with their nanny.

Let’s ad David Beckam and Ben Affleck to the list.

Anonymous wrote:I had two beautiful nannies. Was not an issue.

That you know of.

I really think if your husband is going to sleep with the nanny it doesn’t really matter how hot she is. Also, are you comfortable with a scenario where the nanny’s hotness is the deciding factor for your husband?

Well, you could hire a male nanny,.
Or quit your job and look after the kids yourself and devote yourself fully to babysitting your cheating spouse

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They don’t need to be gorgeous. Remember Schwarzenegger?

Gwen stefanis husband and reese witherspoon husband also cheated with nannies. So did Ethan Hawke. He cheated on uma with their nanny.

They also cheated with non nannies.

Anonymous wrote:They don’t need to be gorgeous. Remember Schwarzenegger?

Gwen stefanis husband and reese witherspoon husband also cheated with nannies. So did Ethan Hawke. He cheated on uma with their nanny.

No.

I did summer nannying and a lot of babysitting while I was in grad school. I started with one family in a wealthy Boston suburb and the mother's friends all began propositioning me for sitting or summer stints on the Cape.

But more than one dad behaved sleezily with me or made an outright pass. I wasn't interested in them and didn't do anything to encourage that behavior, but it still happened often enough that I'd worry. And it was usually the guy who seemed like an upstanding family man, not the near absentee banker father. Very depressing.

Is this a colombian or Russian au pair? Things don't work out as well in real life as in Por n. They'd most likely try to take your hubby.

Anonymous wrote:Currently living this nightmare, except our nanny is anything but gorgeous. Don't do it, OP!

Did you have issues with your marriage before? How were they alone together?

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Anonymous wrote:Do you really think your husband would cheat on you with the nanny?

If they got to know and like each other

Well, then you have got bigger problems than the nanny if your husband is just prone to cheating.

I had two beautiful nannies. Was not an issue.

They don’t need to be gorgeous. Remember Schwarzenegger?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was friends with a 20–something gorgeous nanny. She ended up engaged to a guy in finance a couple years older than her and very attractive. Their HHI is in the 7 figures and she’s no longer nearby so we’ve drifted apart. I still think of her and smile whenever I see posts on here about people worried the nanny is going to seduce their middle aged husbands. No offense, but especially if she’s attractive, she has her sights set much higher.

Unless she's mentally ill or likes yours husband

Yeah, I am guessing most nannies aren’t Elin Nordegren. Plenty of young women are beautiful (and youth IS beautiful) and damaged. I think OP is trolling us for fantasy fodder.

Meh. I knew a lot of au pairs in my younger days. Even the ones who were here looking for a husband wouldn’t have wasted time trying to hook up with a married dad. Divorces take time and they needed to be engaged before their visa ran out.