Anonymous wrote:No because friends text/message me things that aren't for his eyes.

But would he look?

We have each other's passwords and use each other's phones at times (and we both leave our phones lying around unguarded all the time), BUT we both believe in each other's right to privacy. I should be allowed to say things to my friends that he doesn't necessarily need to read and I feel the same about him.

So while I have texts or emails I don't want him to see, I would still leave him with my phone because (a) nothing is that bad and (b) I don't think he'd even look.

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Anonymous wrote:Absolutely. I’ve got nothing to hide. Some venting about him would probably be the worst he’d find. Aside from all of my Amazon purchases.

Married 20+ years.

Just curious, who do you vent to?

NP, but for me it's my close girl friends. We all complain about our husbands at one time or another, although we're all happily married.

Anonymous wrote:Absolutely. I’ve got nothing to hide. Some venting about him would probably be the worst he’d find. Aside from all of my Amazon purchases.

Married 20+ years.

I used to gripe that he wasn't signed into our Amazon account because I was annoyed that he'd send me the things he needed me to buy but then I realized it was great because now he has no idea what exactly I'm buying on there! (We both work, by the way, and both make roughly the same amount of money, so it's not like I'm out spending his money or anything but still...he doesn't need to know what everything costs!)

Anonymous wrote:Yes, the worst thing on my phone is dcum in the browsing history.

Ha, same here!

Yes I would. I have a lot of puctures of her on it but other than that there’s really nothing for her to get upset about.

Of course. I leave my phone at home often.

Sure

Anonymous wrote:Yes, or no?

What's something you'd worry about them seeing?

Yes.

Ugh, he’ll se how much I’m on DCUM. That will be embarrassing.

No because friends text/message me things that aren't for his eyes.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, the worst thing on my phone is dcum in the browsing history.

Oh, I missed this comment. Yes, same exactly!

Me three.

And we know each other’s passwords but don’t need to look. The only thing that would bother me about this is not having my phone.

Yes, and we frequently use each others phones

Anonymous wrote:Yes, the worst thing on my phone is dcum in the browsing history.

Truth!! Other than that I have nothing to hide!!

Yes because there is no reason not to.

Totally. Actually I frequently ask him to take custody of my phone because I know I’m using it too much. And he knows the password.

Yes - he probably wouldn't look at it though.