Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If it's impacting your health and wellbeing, then he needs to be more flexible. In my middle age, I would never get any sleep with the thermostat at 80 in the summer. My super skinny son wouldn't be able to focus on his homework at 60 in the winter.
You also need to make your best effort. Get silk long underwear for everyone to layer under their clothes, cozy fleece slippers and sweaters, a smart thermostat, maybe space heaters for next to your desk or sofa or wherever you spend time in the evening. Invest in a whole house fan if you have shade trees. In my old house without central air, I could open my windows at 6 a.m. and run the whole house fan for 15-30 minutes, then turn off fan and shut windows. My house would stay comfortable for much of the morning, even on really hot days.
Anyway, you get the idea. You do everything you can do then your husband agrees to adjust the temp so you can be healthy and functional.
Sure we can wear more layers. Which then generates more laundry and drives the purchase of future clothes as they wear out.
Remember mugs vs paper cups, you need 100s- 1000x usage to break even, depending on what you measure.
https://www.anthropocenemagazine.org/2017/07/reusable-or-disposable-which-coffee-cup-has-a-smaller-footprint/
I personally think we environmentalists have been scammed; I sacrificed so much to be green, moreover my kids sacrificed, and I realize it was mostly a scam on the civic minded
https://www.theguardian.com/environment/true-north/2017/jul/17/neoliberalism-has-conned-us-into-fighting-climate-change-as-individuals
Anonymous wrote:It’s their way to control and abuse you and the kids. I am serious.
Anonymous wrote:I would move out - no way could I live in that house. I thought we were being great when we went to 73 this summer (from our old stand by of 72).