Anonymous
Post 10/06/2021 17:42     Subject: Best gps tracker to monitor cheating spouse’s car?
Anonymous wrote:Apple air tag in the trunk?


This
Anonymous
Post 10/06/2021 17:36     Subject: Re:Best gps tracker to monitor cheating spouse’s car?
Anonymous wrote:Hired a PI for a friend once to get evidence. It was easier and not that expensive (it wasn't hard to get the initial pictures/evidence). Then you have it IF you need to use it/get gaslighted. Family member never had to show the video, but did have to describe it to spouse to prove they knew what was going on. Shut that argument down as there was no way to deny.

You have it if you need it. And I do think for my friend it was something needed to move on. Wondering and being pretty sure are not the same as having proof.


PP here: Also years later when her ex tried to gaslight adult children, she did the same. I have something if you want to see it. They never did, but then knew the truth.
Anonymous
Post 10/06/2021 17:35     Subject: Re:Best gps tracker to monitor cheating spouse’s car?
Hired a PI for a friend once to get evidence. It was easier and not that expensive (it wasn't hard to get the initial pictures/evidence). Then you have it IF you need to use it/get gaslighted. Family member never had to show the video, but did have to describe it to spouse to prove they knew what was going on. Shut that argument down as there was no way to deny.

You have it if you need it. And I do think for my friend it was something needed to move on. Wondering and being pretty sure are not the same as having proof.
Anonymous
Post 10/06/2021 17:31     Subject: Best gps tracker to monitor cheating spouse’s car?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What makes you think he is cheating? Do you have any suspicions about where he is going?


Op here.
Condoms in his truck ( we don’t use them), viagra I didn’t know about and a cock ring he takes everyday to work. Don’t know when he’s getting the chance to do the deed.


Oh wow. I have cheated on my wife and I definitely gaslighted when I was caught with some minor evidence but that's crazy. I wouldn't even try to lie if I was caught with this stuff.


Man. Cheating is reprehensible. But gaslighting is straight up evil. How do you live with yourself?
Anonymous
Post 10/06/2021 17:27     Subject: Best gps tracker to monitor cheating spouse’s car?
OMG why waste the effort, just divorce.
Anonymous
Post 10/06/2021 17:22     Subject: Best gps tracker to monitor cheating spouse’s car?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What makes you think he is cheating? Do you have any suspicions about where he is going?


Op here.
Condoms in his truck ( we don’t use them), viagra I didn’t know about and a cock ring he takes everyday to work. Don’t know when he’s getting the chance to do the deed.


Oh wow. I have cheated on my wife and I definitely gaslighted when I was caught with some minor evidence but that's crazy. I wouldn't even try to lie if I was caught with this stuff.
Anonymous
Post 10/06/2021 17:07     Subject: Best gps tracker to monitor cheating spouse’s car?
I understand wanting to know 100%. But what does 100% look like for you, OP? I say this with kindness. He takes a cock ring to work. If you were to track him to an address, would that give you 100% certainty? Or would you then feel the need to see inside the building where he goes?

My point is, you might be going down a rabbit hole when you could simply confront him with the cock ring and condoms, and go from there.
Anonymous
Post 10/06/2021 16:54     Subject: Re:Best gps tracker to monitor cheating spouse’s car?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Also, if you can get his phone, you can turn on “ find my iPhone” … works great info., then you are tracking him, not truck. again, not court, he finds out, he won’t be happy.


Op here.
There is no way I’m going to get access to his phone. He keeps it locked and glued to him.


This is yet another huge red flag. We know he's cheating. If you want actual proof, hire a PI.



Or just follow him yourself, from a distance.
Anonymous
Post 10/06/2021 16:42     Subject: Re:Best gps tracker to monitor cheating spouse’s car?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Also, if you can get his phone, you can turn on “ find my iPhone” … works great info., then you are tracking him, not truck. again, not court, he finds out, he won’t be happy.


Op here.
There is no way I’m going to get access to his phone. He keeps it locked and glued to him.


This is yet another huge red flag. We know he's cheating. If you want actual proof, hire a PI.

Anonymous
Post 10/06/2021 16:41     Subject: Re:Best gps tracker to monitor cheating spouse’s car?
Put tiny holes in the condoms. When his AP gets pregnant you'll be home free.
Anonymous
Post 10/06/2021 16:23     Subject: Re:Best gps tracker to monitor cheating spouse’s car?
Anonymous wrote:Also, if you can get his phone, you can turn on “ find my iPhone” … works great info., then you are tracking him, not truck. again, not court, he finds out, he won’t be happy.


Op here.
There is no way I’m going to get access to his phone. He keeps it locked and glued to him.
Anonymous
Post 10/06/2021 15:57     Subject: Re:Best gps tracker to monitor cheating spouse’s car?
Also, if you can get his phone, you can turn on “ find my iPhone” … works great info., then you are tracking him, not truck. again, not court, he finds out, he won’t be happy.
Anonymous
Post 10/06/2021 15:55     Subject: Re:Best gps tracker to monitor cheating spouse’s car?
Can’t track truck if you name is not on title ( you can, but court won’t use).

Anonymous
Post 10/06/2021 12:13     Subject: Best gps tracker to monitor cheating spouse’s car?
Take one thing (like the viagra OR the condoms, but not both) out of his car and toss it (or hide it, whatever). Wait a week or more. Did it show up again?
Anonymous
Post 10/06/2021 11:17     Subject: Re:Best gps tracker to monitor cheating spouse’s car?
Anonymous wrote:OP, I remember your earlier post. I think you know the answer already but I know people with experience always say to get hard and fast evidence so you don't get subjected to ridiculous gaslighting that makes you second guess everything and think you are crazy. But hey, a tracker is not going to give you MORE information than condoms, viagra, and a cock ring, right? Hire a PI who will get photos if you need solid evidence. Or just see a lawyer and start planning for divorce.


You have all of the information you need already. Are you okay staying married or not? If not, get a divorce.