I think it's a question of chance--it just takes one good sperm, right? After testing we had no diagnoses except DH's awful morphology (count was fine). We'd been TTC for 3 years on our own (using OPTs, getting the timing right, etc.) with no success. We had IVF with ICSI and conceived on the second round, have a 1.5 year old. We've been TTC naturally for one year with no results. When I say TTC I mean we're using OPT and getting the timing right, just in case it could work. I'm not stressed about it like I was the first time around because frankly, I'm assuming it's going to take IVF again. I just feel like we should try naturally and see if we can get a baby for free this time.

In about six months if nothing happens we'll go back to the clinic where we have 5 frozen embryocicles.