not only is he cheating, he is stupid!

He's cheating, OP. Save the PI money and hire a lawyer.

I'm sorry, unless you can live with cheating AND if he does not decide to leave regardless of what you can live with, it's over.

https://www.survivinginfidelity.com/documents/library/articles/discovery/the-simplified-180/

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Anonymous wrote:That's a cock ring. Bigger because it goes around all the equipment. Sounds like your husband is gay.

Straight men use cock rings if they have election issues. With viagra, sounds like he does.

Sorry OP, but with ALL those things, he sounds like a creeper. I would probably never look back and get the heck out of there.

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Anonymous wrote:You were all jumping the gun, there are perfectly reasonable explanations for this.

I also keep condoms in my work truck, it’s not for an extramarital affair, I sometimes use them to protect my tools ⚒️ f I m working in a wet area, I also use mail order knock off Viagra as an additive to drywall compound to help it set up faster.

Of course, everyone on DCUM thinks the worst of contractors.
You are all condemning this man when really all we have here is someone who cares about their tools and their work.

Good communication is the key to a good contracting relationship. Too many contractors are not taking into account the voice of the homeowner and installing what they have on hand or want to install. This guy needs to listen to his customer, not just install what he wants — be it a tryst in a Target parking lot, a longterm affair, or other — when it’s unclear if that’s what the customer wants and needs.

Sure PP. lol

OP don't say anything to him. I can't tell you what a big mistake that would be. Instead monitor him in every way to see what is exactly going on. Actually I would hire a P.I. after you get a idea of when this would be going on. Before or after work maybe? If he is cheating which it sure sounds like he is then yes proceed to divorce. A liar and cheater can never be trusted.

Anonymous wrote:You were all jumping the gun, there are perfectly reasonable explanations for this.

I also keep condoms in my work truck, it’s not for an extramarital affair, I sometimes use them to protect my tools ⚒️ f I m working in a wet area, I also use mail order knock off Viagra as an additive to drywall compound to help it set up faster.

Of course, everyone on DCUM thinks the worst of contractors.
You are all condemning this man when really all we have here is someone who cares about their tools and their work.

Good communication is the key to a good contracting relationship. Too many contractors are not taking into account the voice of the homeowner and installing what they have on hand or want to install. This guy needs to listen to his customer, not just install what he wants — be it a tryst in a Target parking lot, a longterm affair, or other — when it’s unclear if that’s what the customer wants and needs.

[quote=Anonymous]You were all jumping the gun, there are perfectly reasonable explanations for this.

I also keep condoms in my work truck, it’s not for an extramarital affair, I sometimes use them to protect my tools ⚒️ f I m working in a wet area, I also use mail order knock off Viagra as an additive to drywall compound to help it set up faster.

Of course, everyone on DCUM thinks the worst of contractors.
You are all condemning this man when really all we have here is someone who cares about their tools and their work. [/quote]

What about the cock ring? Coaster? Hammer rest?

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Anonymous wrote:Well, at least it’s safe sex. I found a ziploc bag with breath mints, sanitizer and a airplane bottle of vodka. No condoms were used in affair.

That could mean several different things not necessarily affair. Could just be alcoholism.

Well the bottle was liquid courage before each meeting with AP. He wasn’t a drinker otherwise.

How do you know that’s what it was for? Has he already admitted everything?

Yes.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well, at least it’s safe sex. I found a ziploc bag with breath mints, sanitizer and a airplane bottle of vodka. No condoms were used in affair.

That could mean several different things not necessarily affair. Could just be alcoholism.

Well the bottle was liquid courage before each meeting with AP. He wasn’t a drinker otherwise.

How do you know that’s what it was for? Has he already admitted everything?

Anonymous wrote:You were all jumping the gun, there are perfectly reasonable explanations for this.

I also keep condoms in my work truck, it’s not for an extramarital affair, I sometimes use them to protect my tools ⚒️ f I m working in a wet area, I also use mail order knock off Viagra as an additive to drywall compound to help it set up faster.

Of course, everyone on DCUM thinks the worst of contractors.
You are all condemning this man when really all we have here is someone who cares about their tools and their work.

This is hilarious thanks NP.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well, at least it’s safe sex. I found a ziploc bag with breath mints, sanitizer and a airplane bottle of vodka. No condoms were used in affair.

That could mean several different things not necessarily affair. Could just be alcoholism.

Well the bottle was liquid courage before each meeting with AP. He wasn’t a drinker otherwise.

You were all jumping the gun, there are perfectly reasonable explanations for this.

I also keep condoms in my work truck, it’s not for an extramarital affair, I sometimes use them to protect my tools ⚒️ f I m working in a wet area, I also use mail order knock off Viagra as an additive to drywall compound to help it set up faster.

Of course, everyone on DCUM thinks the worst of contractors.
You are all condemning this man when really all we have here is someone who cares about their tools and their work.

Thank you DCUM for teaching me about cock rings, this will be helpful info in my over-50 years.

Anonymous wrote:Well, at least it’s safe sex. I found a ziploc bag with breath mints, sanitizer and a airplane bottle of vodka. No condoms were used in affair.

That could mean several different things not necessarily affair. Could just be alcoholism.

Well, at least it’s safe sex. I found a ziploc bag with breath mints, sanitizer and a airplane bottle of vodka. No condoms were used in affair.

Anonymous wrote:One of the signs that my husband was cheating was condoms in the glove box. (We also never used condoms - also, the glove box.)

So yes. Cosign.

As a practical matter, the glovebox is a terrible place to keep condoms as it overheats and degrades the latex, increasing chance of breakage and leaks.