Anonymous wrote:I don't understand this. Don't women realize that the vast majority of married men will absolutely cheat if an attractive (especially younger) woman shows interest?

I don’t know about the vast majority but there are many good men with this weakness who do not deserve to be burned at the stake for it. And no, I was in my mid-40s before I began to understand the world of men. Reading about it can only teach you so much and if you have been on the straight and narrow you don’t get any first hand experience.

Anonymous wrote:I don't understand this. Don't women realize that the vast majority of married men will absolutely cheat if an attractive (especially younger) woman shows interest?

Really? Then you're saying most men are low lifes and most women married one. I hope the percentage of good men is higher!

EW

OP and Honestly who knows what he is. He’s not my fantasy for sure, but what lies underneath could be anybody’s guess. The world is not that dichotomous.

I don't understand this. Don't women realize that the vast majority of married men will absolutely cheat if an attractive (especially younger) woman shows interest?

Anonymous wrote:Which is pretty much curing the crush. Disillusionment is so helpful sometimes but also, sad.

Same old story. The fantasy is never like reality OP.

Sorry you found out he's merely a married scumbag, and should feel sorry for his wife. Or maybe she knows what he is, but has to stay for $$ and the kids.

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Anonymous wrote:Same thing happened to me many years ago. I was like “dude your wife is amazing and you have kids, you are a serious sleezeball.” Crush dead, problem solved.

And of course you did absolutely nothing to let him know you were interested? You liked the attention, but when it got real you blamed him and called him a sleezeball? What does that make you?

Oh yes, making polite conversation with this dude and his wife during dinner was such a hussy thing to do. 🙄

Do some self-examination and consider why you jumped to the conclusion that i must have somehow contributed to his sleezy behavior. This says so much more about you than it does about me.

Anonymous wrote:Same thing happened to me many years ago. I was like “dude your wife is amazing and you have kids, you are a serious sleezeball.” Crush dead, problem solved.

And of course you did absolutely nothing to let him know you were interested? You liked the attention, but when it got real you blamed him and called him a sleezeball? What does that make you?

I wouldn't be a member of any club that would have me.

Same thing happened to me many years ago. I was like “dude your wife is amazing and you have kids, you are a serious sleezeball.” Crush dead, problem solved.

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Anonymous wrote:Which is pretty much curing the crush. Disillusionment is so helpful sometimes but also, sad.

LOL and agree with you reaction as it's how I would have reacted as well.

Lol thanks for actually reading the OP instead of sharpening your pitchfork on a message you don’t even understand!

Anonymous wrote:Which is pretty much curing the crush. Disillusionment is so helpful sometimes but also, sad.

LOL and agree with you reaction as it's how I would have reacted as well.

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Anonymous wrote:I"m not the OP but wondering if the same happened to me this week. He said he loves me on the phone, wants to protect me, I make things exciting etc. Never see him in person though. thoughts on how serious this is?

Yes. That’s true love . On the phone line never seeing him in person. This is a relationship based in reality.

JFC. Don’t waste your time. Why can’t you get a single guy? Nobody of high value that’s single wants you? So a washed up cheater is what you think is best?

So it's you again, huh?
The "value" poster who insulted the OP in your first insecure comment.

Try monitoring your own spouses "value", seems you need to. 🙄

Anonymous wrote:I"m not the OP but wondering if the same happened to me this week. He said he loves me on the phone, wants to protect me, I make things exciting etc. Never see him in person though. thoughts on how serious this is?

Yes. That’s true love . On the phone line never seeing him in person. This is a relationship based in reality.

JFC. Don’t waste your time. Why can’t you get a single guy? Nobody of high value that’s single wants you? So a washed up cheater is what you think is best?

Anonymous wrote:I"m not the OP but wondering if the same happened to me this week. He said he loves me on the phone, wants to protect me, I make things exciting etc. Never see him in person though. thoughts on how serious this is?

WTF!! This is all kinds of inappropriate.