Anonymous
Post 06/09/2024 00:15     Subject: Re:Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2024 00:01     Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Honestly I feel bad for her. After he checked out and cheated on her the first time, he’s checking out and dumping her a second time. I’m sorry, he knew exactly who she was and should have let her be. Yes, she handled things badly but none of that was terribly surprising. In the documentary he asked her repeatedly if she forgave him for the first time. She really believed this was her happy ending because he assured her that it was. He’s pathetic.


He truly is. Why did he email her and restart this relationship ? It’s not J Lo was hunting him down. She was in a different relationship and ENGAGED when he reached out.

The first time around she was a married woman and he made passes toward her. She was led by the nose by him each time swept away by what she thought was the missing piece: the leading man/movie star to her role (because J Lo is an act /role) as leading lady .


I am with you guys. What in the world was he expecting? J lo was an annoying attention seeker with Arod. She's not changing. He even acknowledges that she's like that because of her childhood. Then why are you, with 3 kids of your own, getting involved? J lo needs help and she should have known better but he still sucks for leading her on.
Anonymous
Post 06/08/2024 23:28     Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:How can he tire of her when she was like this in the beginning? He is the one with the issue here . She’s just being herself.


And vice versa.
Anonymous
Post 06/08/2024 23:26     Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Honestly I feel bad for her. After he checked out and cheated on her the first time, he’s checking out and dumping her a second time. I’m sorry, he knew exactly who she was and should have let her be. Yes, she handled things badly but none of that was terribly surprising. In the documentary he asked her repeatedly if she forgave him for the first time. She really believed this was her happy ending because he assured her that it was. He’s pathetic.


He truly is. Why did he email her and restart this relationship ? It’s not J Lo was hunting him down. She was in a different relationship and ENGAGED when he reached out.

The first time around she was a married woman and he made passes toward her. She was led by the nose by him each time swept away by what she thought was the missing piece: the leading man/movie star to her role (because J Lo is an act /role) as leading lady .


The woman you've described here isn't very smart to be led astray so easily from a beloved fiance...
Anonymous
Post 06/08/2024 23:01     Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
They all have had multiple marriages. They marry and discard spouses again and again. All three of them—both Jens and Ben. They all seem to court the paparazzi. Even JG is focused on her stupid pretend cooking show. Big lifestyles, big mistakes.
Anonymous
Post 06/08/2024 22:54     Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Honestly I feel bad for her. After he checked out and cheated on her the first time, he’s checking out and dumping her a second time. I’m sorry, he knew exactly who she was and should have let her be. Yes, she handled things badly but none of that was terribly surprising. In the documentary he asked her repeatedly if she forgave him for the first time. She really believed this was her happy ending because he assured her that it was. He’s pathetic.


He truly is. Why did he email her and restart this relationship ? It’s not J Lo was hunting him down. She was in a different relationship and ENGAGED when he reached out.

The first time around she was a married woman and he made passes toward her. She was led by the nose by him each time swept away by what she thought was the missing piece: the leading man/movie star to her role (because J Lo is an act /role) as leading lady .


so perhaps she should have given up on the idea by the time 50+ rolled out?
Anonymous
Post 06/08/2024 22:51     Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Some great love story! She shouldn’t chase after him. He’s a smoker and an addict. He’s miserable to be around. He doesn’t even look happy with himself. Both of them treat marriage like dating. There’s no great story with them. They both are walking disasters. With all their money, they sure are making bad financial decisions left and right. They also keep implicating their kids with each new girlfriend or boyfriend. The kids really lose out on these terrible told models of parents. They keep mixing ‘his’ kids with ‘her’ kids all over again. Even Jen Garner is mixing her kids with the CEO’s kids. Talk about one big messed up and confusing childhood.


Jen G has been with the CEO for years. It’s not terrible parenting for them to involve their kids at this point.


But all considered, those kids have been "connected" to multiple relationships through their parents and stepparents.


They were connected to their nanny that Ben cheated with as well.

He’s a mess. Not sure why both Jennifers are attached. Addiction is his excuse
Anonymous
Post 06/08/2024 22:49     Subject: Re:Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:J Lo is embarrassing. Spending $20 million of her own money to make a documentary about her and Ben’s supposed great love affair, making an album dedicated to the same, labeling their romance “the greatest love story never told” and saying Ben was the love of her life. All for the marriage to implode only a few months later. Some great love story.


He is worse than her . The amount of pap strolls he had with Ana de Armas were insane. Garner and Lopez didn’t have as much pap attention for their respective relationships . I think the paparazzi shots and compliments are his third addiction along with gambling and alcoholism . It’s sad that a man has to make sure every home is paid for cash because he doesn’t want to become victim to his addictions (gambling, alcoholism ) like his father . He has the issues . He has both Jennifers and his mother trying to play babysitter /clean up.
Anonymous
Post 06/08/2024 22:45     Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
How can he tire of her when she was like this in the beginning? He is the one with the issue here . She’s just being herself.
Anonymous
Post 06/08/2024 22:44     Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:Honestly I feel bad for her. After he checked out and cheated on her the first time, he’s checking out and dumping her a second time. I’m sorry, he knew exactly who she was and should have let her be. Yes, she handled things badly but none of that was terribly surprising. In the documentary he asked her repeatedly if she forgave him for the first time. She really believed this was her happy ending because he assured her that it was. He’s pathetic.


He truly is. Why did he email her and restart this relationship ? It’s not J Lo was hunting him down. She was in a different relationship and ENGAGED when he reached out.

The first time around she was a married woman and he made passes toward her. She was led by the nose by him each time swept away by what she thought was the missing piece: the leading man/movie star to her role (because J Lo is an act /role) as leading lady .
Anonymous
Post 06/08/2024 22:43     Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
It is challenging to be married to a guy newly in recovery.

I'm rooting for them.
Anonymous
Post 06/08/2024 22:41     Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Jlo's poor kids. They bonded with Arod's kids and that was suddenly broken off. Then lucky bonded with Ben's kids only for that to be broken off too
Anonymous
Post 06/08/2024 22:23     Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Some great love story! She shouldn’t chase after him. He’s a smoker and an addict. He’s miserable to be around. He doesn’t even look happy with himself. Both of them treat marriage like dating. There’s no great story with them. They both are walking disasters. With all their money, they sure are making bad financial decisions left and right. They also keep implicating their kids with each new girlfriend or boyfriend. The kids really lose out on these terrible told models of parents. They keep mixing ‘his’ kids with ‘her’ kids all over again. Even Jen Garner is mixing her kids with the CEO’s kids. Talk about one big messed up and confusing childhood.


Jen G has been with the CEO for years. It’s not terrible parenting for them to involve their kids at this point.


But all considered, those kids have been "connected" to multiple relationships through their parents and stepparents.


I’m pretty sure this is the only relationship Garner been in since they divorced.

The kids met Ana and possibly other women Ben has been with, but that’s not on Jen.


PP here. I agree. I just think it's said that Ben's choices and his connection to JLo and her choices are impacting all the kids.


meant to say "sad" not "said"
Anonymous
Post 06/08/2024 22:23     Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Some great love story! She shouldn’t chase after him. He’s a smoker and an addict. He’s miserable to be around. He doesn’t even look happy with himself. Both of them treat marriage like dating. There’s no great story with them. They both are walking disasters. With all their money, they sure are making bad financial decisions left and right. They also keep implicating their kids with each new girlfriend or boyfriend. The kids really lose out on these terrible told models of parents. They keep mixing ‘his’ kids with ‘her’ kids all over again. Even Jen Garner is mixing her kids with the CEO’s kids. Talk about one big messed up and confusing childhood.


Jen G has been with the CEO for years. It’s not terrible parenting for them to involve their kids at this point.


But all considered, those kids have been "connected" to multiple relationships through their parents and stepparents.


I’m pretty sure this is the only relationship Garner been in since they divorced.

The kids met Ana and possibly other women Ben has been with, but that’s not on Jen.


PP here. I agree. I just think it's said that Ben's choices and his connection to JLo and her choices are impacting all the kids.
Anonymous
Post 06/08/2024 22:20     Subject: Can we analyze jennifer lopez?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Some great love story! She shouldn’t chase after him. He’s a smoker and an addict. He’s miserable to be around. He doesn’t even look happy with himself. Both of them treat marriage like dating. There’s no great story with them. They both are walking disasters. With all their money, they sure are making bad financial decisions left and right. They also keep implicating their kids with each new girlfriend or boyfriend. The kids really lose out on these terrible told models of parents. They keep mixing ‘his’ kids with ‘her’ kids all over again. Even Jen Garner is mixing her kids with the CEO’s kids. Talk about one big messed up and confusing childhood.


Jen G has been with the CEO for years. It’s not terrible parenting for them to involve their kids at this point.


But all considered, those kids have been "connected" to multiple relationships through their parents and stepparents.


I’m pretty sure this is the only relationship Garner been in since they divorced.

The kids met Ana and possibly other women Ben has been with, but that’s not on Jen.