It’s clear that he is very troubled. And I imagine that it will be difficult for him to follow the law in the future. He was already drinking g and doing who knows what else before the crash and I’m sure the crash was life changing, not in any positive way. But also remember that those three boys were also impaired and they got in the car with him knowing they were all impaired.
I think all of us can be thankful that we now have Uber and hopefully we as parents are accessible to our kids if they find themselves I trouble. And hopefully we have been successful in teaching our kids to recognize risks and not engage.
All around this is a tragedy. And I can’t imagine that he will be different when he’s discharged. But I do believe that given the way we view each gal health and alcohol/substance abuse, he probably won’t get the resources that could give him a chance.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The Olney boy got 18 months.
Kevin Coffay got four years. He was just released. He was the kid who flees from the scene of the Magruder accident.
Just got seven more for violating his probation - he was driving without the mandated interlock device.
https://bethesdamagazine.com/bethesda-beat/courts/drunken-driver-whose-crash-killed-three-sent-back-to-prison-for-violating-probation/
Thank you so much for posting this. Every parent and teen needs to read what can easily happen when you fail to enforce healthy boundaries early on.
This boy obviously thought the rules didn’t apply to him. His parents allowed it. Tragic.
Omg, the judge Cho also pointed to a record of more than 100 times when the interlock recorded alcohol in Coffay’s body, within the one year after being released from prison.
He was supposed to refrain from alcohol completely and indefinitely.
That means that he attempted to drive 100 times after consuming alcohol after he was released from his shortened prison sentence.
Her kills 3 kids, serves a greatly reduced sentence than the 20 years that he was sentenced to... and then he attempts to drive 100 times after drinking again.![]()
That’s why he’s going back to prison.
Omg it took too long to get him off the road... he could have easily killed three more people.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The Olney boy got 18 months.
Kevin Coffay got four years. He was just released. He was the kid who flees from the scene of the Magruder accident.
Just got seven more for violating his probation - he was driving without the mandated interlock device.
https://bethesdamagazine.com/bethesda-beat/courts/drunken-driver-whose-crash-killed-three-sent-back-to-prison-for-violating-probation/
Thank you so much for posting this. Every parent and teen needs to read what can easily happen when you fail to enforce healthy boundaries early on.
This boy obviously thought the rules didn’t apply to him. His parents allowed it. Tragic.
Omg, the judge Cho also pointed to a record of more than 100 times when the interlock recorded alcohol in Coffay’s body, within the one year after being released from prison.
He was supposed to refrain from alcohol completely and indefinitely.
That means that he attempted to drive 100 times after consuming alcohol after he was released from his shortened prison sentence.
Her kills 3 kids, serves a greatly reduced sentence than the 20 years that he was sentenced to... and then he attempts to drive 100 times after drinking again.![]()
That’s why he’s going back to prison.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The Olney boy got 18 months.
Kevin Coffay got four years. He was just released. He was the kid who flees from the scene of the Magruder accident.
Just got seven more for violating his probation - he was driving without the mandated interlock device.
https://bethesdamagazine.com/bethesda-beat/courts/drunken-driver-whose-crash-killed-three-sent-back-to-prison-for-violating-probation/
Thank you so much for posting this. Every parent and teen needs to read what can easily happen when you fail to enforce healthy boundaries early on.
This boy obviously thought the rules didn’t apply to him. His parents allowed it. Tragic.
It’s so easy to blame parents. But none of us really knows whether they worked hard at parenting or were entitled. As a parent of a troubled teen and a friend of other parents with troubled teens, I can tell you this. Even when you work really hard at parenting, sometimes your kids don’t turn out the way you hoped - and the way your other kids did. You are lucky if you never experienced this.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The Olney boy got 18 months.
Kevin Coffay got four years. He was just released. He was the kid who flees from the scene of the Magruder accident.
Just got seven more for violating his probation - he was driving without the mandated interlock device.
https://bethesdamagazine.com/bethesda-beat/courts/drunken-driver-whose-crash-killed-three-sent-back-to-prison-for-violating-probation/
Thank you so much for posting this. Every parent and teen needs to read what can easily happen when you fail to enforce healthy boundaries early on.
This boy obviously thought the rules didn’t apply to him. His parents allowed it. Tragic.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The Olney boy got 18 months.
Kevin Coffay got four years. He was just released. He was the kid who flees from the scene of the Magruder accident.
Just got seven more for violating his probation - he was driving without the mandated interlock device.
https://bethesdamagazine.com/bethesda-beat/courts/drunken-driver-whose-crash-killed-three-sent-back-to-prison-for-violating-probation/
Thank you so much for posting this. Every parent and teen needs to read what can easily happen when you fail to enforce healthy boundaries early on.
This boy obviously thought the rules didn’t apply to him. His parents allowed it. Tragic.
Omg, the judge Cho also pointed to a record of more than 100 times when the interlock recorded alcohol in Coffay’s body, within the one year after being released from prison.
He was supposed to refrain from alcohol completely and indefinitely.
That means that he attempted to drive 100 times after consuming alcohol after he was released from his shortened prison sentence.
Her kills 3 kids, serves a greatly reduced sentence than the 20 years that he was sentenced to... and then he attempts to drive 100 times after drinking again.![]()
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The Olney boy got 18 months.
Kevin Coffay got four years. He was just released. He was the kid who flees from the scene of the Magruder accident.
Just got seven more for violating his probation - he was driving without the mandated interlock device.
https://bethesdamagazine.com/bethesda-beat/courts/drunken-driver-whose-crash-killed-three-sent-back-to-prison-for-violating-probation/
Thank you so much for posting this. Every parent and teen needs to read what can easily happen when you fail to enforce healthy boundaries early on.
This boy obviously thought the rules didn’t apply to him. His parents allowed it. Tragic.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The Olney boy got 18 months.
Kevin Coffay got four years. He was just released. He was the kid who flees from the scene of the Magruder accident.
Just got seven more for violating his probation - he was driving without the mandated interlock device.
https://bethesdamagazine.com/bethesda-beat/courts/drunken-driver-whose-crash-killed-three-sent-back-to-prison-for-violating-probation/
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The Olney boy got 18 months.
Kevin Coffay got four years. He was just released. He was the kid who flees from the scene of the Magruder accident.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Please don't allow your kids to attend parties that might have alcohol and/or drugs.
Reality:
"A party isn't a party without alcohol."
This is exactly how the kids feel.
What exactly do parents think there’s to gain from having your kid go to these very risky events?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Please don't allow your kids to attend parties that might have alcohol and/or drugs.
Reality:
"A party isn't a party without alcohol."